If someone who is drunk really, truly wants to have sex with you, they’ll still want to have sex with you when they’re sober. Best to play it safe and just wait until they can give informed and enthusiastic consent.

No. If she were my daughter, the first question - the only question - I would ask her is “How can I best help and support you through this?” Because I have a functioning soul, and am not a victim-blaming piece of shit. Any parent who would respond to their child being raped by lecturing them on what they did wrong is…

People like you are the reason why she likely spent most of the last 500 days blaming herself for what happened to her, just like other rape victims do. Feeling angry towards herself, instead of towards her abuser. “I shouldn’t have worn such revealing clothing.” “I shouldn’t have gotten drunk.” “I should have asked…