And Cat. I love Cat.

Thanks. I’ve been told similar by healthcare providers/therapists, etc. I’m in a very tenuous situation in regards having somewhere to live vs. being homeless. If I call the cops on his ass, I’ll be out on the streets. I don’t have any family nearby, and my nearest (and only friend) lives an hour away. I don’t have a…

Thanks. I’m sorry you experienced similar.

“Countless suicide threats can be a form of abuse.”

I’m sorry you went through that. I’m finally starting to put a name on what my husband’s issues are - the BPD diagnosis was suggested by a physician friend. I never thought I’d end up in a relationship like this, either. You never do think you will.

“You’re allowed to wish that the person who raped you get hit by a bus.”