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RPatz had people scratching their necks open and offering to let him drink. Dude is allowed to be freaked out for forever over that.

I loved this piece. And I think bachelorette parties are part of a larger, overall trend of constant performance of one’s life events. I think some women are so desperate to replicate what we see in the media, so they throw ridiculous parties because thats what we “should” do. I’ve been wondering a lot lately about

Honey, it’s okay that thinking about things makes you mad and inspires a tantrum about how you just want to have fun without having to ever think about any of it. Some of us actually like thinking, though, and talking about things like why these social rituals exist and what it means for a woman to cut loose in

Okay, so you had a super fun bachelorette party and that is really wonderful for you. Honestly, I’m happy for you, that’s really awesome that you got to enjoy your day. But here’s the thing, not everyone likes the same things. I’ve been to bachelorette parties that have been completely ridiculous and over the top, and

The nurses and other staff at the hospice where Terri Schiavo died were inundated with death threats as ambitious Republican politicians joined forces with toxic anti-choice zealots like the utterly, irredeemably odious Randall Terry to make the case an international cause celebre.

I’m fine with this. Smoking is terrible, sometimes I wish cigarettes were banned outright. I smoked on and off from age 22 to 26, and many of my friends at the time were smokers. So many of them have struggled to quit for years, and regretted ever starting. I don’t know any smokers who are really happy that they’re

It’s actually much safer for both the cats and the local wildlife if cats are kept inside, and cats can live perfectly healthy and much longer lives if they are kept inside. Not only is the risk of a cat being injured or killed very high if they are outside (I see a dead cat that’s been run over almost weekly in my

Women have taken male pen names to be taken seriously, to be read in the first place because of blatant sexism. I have nothing against these men doing the initials things, but it is not the same.

Suggestion: don’t base your vote on the candidate’s smile.

Open concept fucking sucks. And it’s inescapable now.

Stop enforcing your Pacific beauty standards onto this Atlantic gal.

Too bad; she was great at the weird alien looks of high fashion. Not a girl next door; not a child of the rich n famous turned Insta-celeb, but a real interesting (in a baby-doll way) looking model that had presence.

Hottest take: It’s OK to not like things other people like and it’s also OK for them to like things you don’t.

Did you...not read the damn article? There’s a WHOLE VIDEO for you at the end.

People Who Have No Idea How To Dress In Adult Life are the worst.

I am so tired of this idiotic most violence affecting the black community comes from black communitynon-argument from disingenuous racists. The vast majority of ALL violence is intra-racial; that statistic is utterly meaningless because it applies to virtually everyone, everywhere. Most violence affecting the white

This should be fun. When under pressure, Trump always keeps a level head and makes smart, well thought out decisions that he has discussed with several other equally calm and thoughtful individuals. So I guess it will either be fun, or something the crazy people who live in bunkers and survive can point back to as