Totally agree on not wearing white and black to a wedding. But red depends on the situation. In some Asian cultures, red is the color for happiness and good luck. So I tend to wear red or shades of red clothing to help the couple celebrate. Purple is the color of widows, so I never wear purple to weddings. Kinda…

Thank you for pointing this out! I feel it can be difficult to understand some of the racism towards Asians, since it’s often subtle and not as overt as what we are used to. We cannot use the same lens that we use to identify racism towards other cultures.

Just FYI- it’s not the Malaysian upper class Rachel is navigating through, it’s the Singaporean upper class that she’s navigating through....

I think that may be a cultural thing. Many Asian families are very conscience of the family they are marrying to. It’s not not as big of a deal as it has been in the past, but it’s still there. However, if you are in a rich family, they want to make sure you’re marrying a good person and oftentimes (not always) family…

Seriously! I use bright blue eyeliner almost every day. Blue eyeliner and eyeshadow never went out of style for me!

Not having a choice and being told what you can and can’t eat (because of dependence on the government) really reminds me of Communism....

I tried this a few weeks ago during a vodka tasting at Hanger One. It’s gross.

First thing- NEVER BUY NEW CHINA OR DISHES OR GLASSWARE because you can get that stuff close to free at estate sales! (This only applies if you’re ok with using used items, which with dishes and glassware, you can just wash to remove all the ick).

As someone who has sold on Ikea stuff on amazon, the profits are incredibly small. You are mostly paying the amazon fees for the items. I did the math.

As someone who has sold on Ikea stuff on amazon, the profits are incredibly small. You are mostly paying the amazon fees for the items. I did the math.

So I had an amazon shop where I resold some Ikea stuff. Just FYI- I was not making millions from selling Ikea stuff. My profit margin was $0.50 after I factored in Amazon fees and costs of me shipping everything. The price difference you see on Amazon is pretty much paying for shipping and fees. I quickly got out of…

I just assume that if you cross a street while staring at your phone and NOT paying attention to traffic, you’re just being suicidal. So if anything, if I hit you, I should be able to sue you for damaging my car and causing me undue stress.

I disagree. When I can, I will go ahead and stand up and prepare to leave. Meaning I have my purse ready and if possible, my suitcase. I understand I’m not going anywhere, but it gives me a chance to stand and stretch my legs AND I have some time to get my things without feeling rushed.

Look guys, shoulders and toes are very tempting to men. If you’re showing your shoulders and toes, you’re pretty much asking for it. Remember men cannot control their sexual desires, so it’s up to us ladies to make sure we don’t tempt them.

I went to private all girl school, and we had a dresscode (no backless or whatnot. I don’t fully remember). But we didn’t have any rules about who we could bring. There were many of us who just went with each other just so we could go to prom and dance the night away. But maybe that was a simpler time? Or maybe we…

I feel really torn about the movie. Personally, I agree with the article. I hated the direction of the movie. Why was it from the perspective of Rebecca Skoot? That may not have been the intent, but it did feel like that. You cannot ignore the white savior complex in the movie.

When I started watching the series, I felt the same way. I thought the tapes were selfish and just dramatic. But when they get to why she made the tapes (for her and not for revenge) I understood and saw it differently. Maybe I’m being naive, but I don’t think she sent it out as revenge. But I also don’t really…

Umm....the men would have to read the book and understand the reference for it to be effective. I think those ladies were giving too much credit to the legislature, expecting them to understand the reference. They probably thought they were cosplaying.

I’m noticing so many comments about how “Danielle” should just leave it and take it. But I have to wonder if how would people feel if it was reversed. If you were one of the few males working with a female group and early in the morning, when you just arrive at work, they are talking about menstration in detail.

I think that’s just her choice. And we may not agree with her choice, but we should respect it. Even though it’s not ideal to us, it’s her view of feminism. She’s making the choice to abstain from sex because it works for her.