You’re more likely to die driving to get the ticket than you are to win.

Anyone lacking the emotional intuition to tell the difference between lack of desire and playing coy, should not be trying to have sex with anyone in the first place.

I feel for her, and it must be tough for their kids to be a punchline of sorts. But she’s married to a guy who has so many children that he struggled to recall their names during an interview in Hard Knocks a few years back. (At the time, this included four 4 year olds and three 3 year olds.) The guy is prolific.

As a wife it makes me sad and disgusted that wives go through this. There have been times when I’m not into it and my husband wants to so he finds ways to turn me on. He doesn’t beg. He doesn’t just go ahead and does it. He tries to turn me on and he’s often successful and when he’s not he understands. Am I naive to…

This is what’s sad for me - there are women who haven’t had these kinds of experiences but I have. Once I was with friends and we were talking about rape and I said “I kind of sort of was. Not really” and they just stared at me. So I talked about the situation. An abusive boyfriend had a key to my apartment. I went…

If there is a woman alive who has not had this experience, I’d like to meet her, because she is a rare, rare creature. I’m so grateful to you for sharing your story and elaborating on the complexity of consent. So many people want to make it a black-and-white, yes-or-no issue, and the more people who stand up and say…

What if the author says “no we shouldn’t” and eventually gives in-which was her intention all along, but never explicitly gives consent? That is one of the points she is making, people have different implicit knowledge of how to converse in sexual relationships.

Well, I mean, your chances of being run over tend to skyrocket when you are outside vs. when you are inside.

Then again, your chances of getting run over by some asshole is a bit lower when you’re riding in place at a gym.

I think spinning classes are dumb and faddish, but I also wouldn’t ride my bike in the city I live in. It’s taking your life in your hands. Plus, the weather prohibits it for much of the year. It’s easy to tell others to just ride their bikes, but that’s not actually realistic for a lot of people.

I don’t think it’s fair to blame a studio for you only getting to the gym once in 3 months.

Here is a really really novel Idea: Get on a regular bike and ride. I mea sure you an’t do fancy push up things, but its way more fun, you can ride somewhere to drink beer, or have a picnic, or you know go shopping, pick up your groceries.....bikes were never meant to be indoors and $34 a class is truly criminal. I…