He would change tactics & try something else. This was a repeating cycle.

I like how casually dismissive you are of the labor it takes to process trauma in order to admit victimhood. PTSD, anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, all of those drain the life right out of people and here you are, acting like it’s no big deal. And you’re incredibly wrong about millennials being “work shy”. There’s…

Yes, I think claiming Aziz’s career is near destroyed, he’s the victim of revenge porn, men are being criminalized, the MeToo movement is now wayward, misrepresenting stats, and calling a whole generation of young women “weak” can be characterized as shrieking histrionics. And that’s a very restrained descriptor. tysm

Even when kids aren’t taught to do this, most people can recognize when someone recoils away.

Samantha Bee said it well. No one is disingenuous as to say Ansari is like Weinstein and that he should lose his job or be criminally charged. But if you are going to wear a #TimesUp pin and have a public persona as a feminist, you should know that your interactions with a woman was considered violating and coercive.

“I hate applying the victim label to her as it diminishes the weight that the word carries when it is applied to actual victims.”

You can go ahead and leave that decision to the victims, friend. 

You’re 100% wrong. And if we are being honest why would you want to initiate sex with someone who isn’t 100% into it? My partner not being into it would make me soft (sorry). I would’t “go harder to the hole than I should have” cuz that sounds like rape. On my first date with my fiancee (pictured above) we went back…

One can say “Just say no.” But why are we pretending that if someone is recoiling from you that humans don’t get that reaction. It’s one of the first verbal cues we learn.

In what world does saying “I’m uncomfortable with this” not mean stop? How is that ambiguous? If you told someone you were uncomfortable with something they were doing would you not mean that they should stop doing that thing that made you uncomfortable?

What’s mindblowing is that I have to believe that any who is calling Grace’s accounts as a “bad date” either didn’t actually read her story and are defending Aziz blindly because he’s “so great” or something OR people just don’t want to confront what they have done to others or what was done to them. There’s no mind…