yeah, go fuck yourself

Sure, that’s the only situation in which women could possibly feel physically intimidated by men or in which men sexually assault women. *eyeroll*

I think the purpose of this article was lost for you. Nothing about litigating regret.

People are also acting like women aren’t physically intimidated by men. We are. Men are bigger and stronger, for the most part. To be alone with a man is taking a risk. We often laugh and try to placate them even when we’re uncomfortable. There is story after story of women who allow men to have sex with them in order…

Go fuck yourself.

Laying there like a sack is a huge neon sign, but he didn’t care. He wanted sex, and didn’t care if she did or if she enjoyed it. Yes, she decided to give in and it sucks, but don’t pretend he actually cared what she wanted. He was there for what he wanted and that’s all that mattered.

I don’t think the author was advocating for making unwanted but ultimately consensual sex a crime. She’s simply saying that we need to discuss these problematic sexual dynamics because they are fucked up and make people feel like shit. I’ve had plenty of terrible, borderline nonconsensual sexual encounters that I…

It’s almost like she’s experienced a lifetime of being told it’s her moral obligation to make people feel good and that it’s selfish to do what is right for her.

I call bullshit. Men are well aware when women aren’t fully into the act. They choose to go ahead anyway. That shit is on them.

Men will never understand what it feels like to be prey all the time. To have to give sex in order to avoid being assaulted. This is my twenties in a nutshell.

Its a fear of male violence issue. Fix that and women will be straight with you. If she had walked out of that date, she’d have to make sure she had a safe way to get home and that he couldnt find her. Some bars have a service to help women leave bad dates but it isnt everywhere.

Get fucked you humongous asshole. Are all crimes “self esteem” problems or just the ones that happen to women? European men absolutely do violate consent and you’ve just let us all know you’re one of them.

Wow there are a lot of aggressively shitty commenters here. I’m kind of surprised there are people who don’t grasp that people can be pressured to do things they don’t want to do. They might not be able to do anything about it legally but that doesn’t mean there are no emotional and psychological effects. People can…

Alright time to chime in.

I don’t disagree that she consented and this is a case of regret and not rape.

Lmao you sound like you shit fedoras.

My wife has a brother the same age as your nephew, who on top of living in an extremely conservative rural town with no real sex ed, is on the spectrum and has trouble socializing. I’ve talked to him about consent and all that, but I fear the kind of bullshit that the few kids he hangs out with at school and the…

Thank you for having this conversation with your nephew!! The “friendzone” only exists in the minds of people who live there...because when someone does not reciprocate romantic interest, you have the choice to accept that and stay in their lives on those terms or move on entirely. The people who talk about the…

I know exactly how you feel. Plus, it’s dangerous to say no to a man that feels entitled to sex.

This is 100% true. I remember thinking the whole time I was being raped, “why isn’t my boyfriend coming to rescue me?” only to discover later that he had purposely left me alone in that hotel room with his friend and took an extra long time to get the food. It’s to the point that 20 years later, I’m more angry with him…