Sure. And women who focus too much on intersectionality are also bad feminists. And women who like problematic things. And women who are too strident. And those who follow traditional roles are very bad feminists, indeed. So there's a small group of doctrinally pure feminists and the whole thing is irrelevant.

Lewis's Law in action!

You need both. Some people will push hard and fight for change and others will try to find common ground and take the time to gently discuss things, over and over, in the hope of eventually changing minds.

So what, in your view, makes for a "good feminist"? And why all the gate-keeping?

Well, then, you should write that. There is room for more angles of discussion on the issue.