If you will allow me to get very, very real for a minute: this hysteria over basic is really just a bunch of privileged white girls caring too much about what other people think.

I wanted to bring up the book Koko's Kitten. I wondered if I was the only 80's kid who remembered the heartbreaking story of Koko and All Ball. That has stayed with me almost 30 years. We've been talking about Koko's emotions for a looooooong time. I am sort of flabbergasted at an article questioning why we wonder at…

In one of her essays, Susie Bright talks about her participation in a program that the city of San Francisco ran for awhile, where LGBT activists were asked to come into the public schools and teach kids about LGBT issues. But what they got, when they actually talked to the kids, was 99% questions about heterosexual…

As someone who works on college campuses doing consent work, this does help. It gets students actively talking about sex and reduces the shame around sex. Shame is one reason that those assaulted don't come forward. Students have sex lives that are very affected by our culture of shame in regard to sex. This helps…

There's something deeply sad about 18-22 year olds who have already dedicated themselves to becoming sex-negative scolds.

She has the body of superhero. And the moves too. If I ever get stuck in a burning car wreck, I know who I want rescuing me.