See I hate that comparisons to Bill Cosby are coming out. Cheating on your wife is just in no way on the same field as raping 50+ women.

I agree, which is why I talked my husband about it regularly. It didn’t protect us though. We’re divorced.

The lying is the worst part about the cheating, right? That’s what makes it cheating.

Can I ask you then, and I’m probably veering off topic, how you would define cheating? What Whedon did is unquestionably cheating, I’m not arguing otherwise. But it’s not a simple answer, since in some relationships, having sex or relationships with other people is not cheating, and in others, sending an email to a…

I think his behavior is gross and his personal defenses are weird and creepy. I didn’t have him on a huge pedestal to begin with, I guess. I love his writing and his work, and it’s not like a separate the art from the artist thing, it’s just a this is not enough to make me hate a person thing.

If you’re a woman who cheats on a man, can you still be a feminist? What if you’re a man who cheats on a man?

Nah. If he was facing criminal charges or something, maybe, but even then only maybe. Cheating on your wife? Studio execs will get him a beer and pat him on the back after his rough day. And, I’m actually glad for that. I don’t think this is a thing you should get fired for, unless you work in the same place as your…

I can’t blame her for shutting down the site. I don’t think it’s great that she’s doing it now, over this, but also I never visited it and I don’t really care.

The one quote about the needy aggressive women making him feel like a god is creepy. Other than that, none of this makes him not a feminist. It makes him a shitty husband, but I don’t really get why I needed to know that.

Yes, I take her word as is. Yes, I’m still a Whedon fan. Even yes, I still think he’s a feminist.

No one would still, right? No one. Right?

This. Sure, what Taylor Fucking Swift needs is “more fame.” Sure, that’s it.

yes! i actually rewatched it recently just because i enjoyed kristen stewart in it so much.

Maybe because he was open about it, he didn’t seem miserable in the same way. Or, when he did, it was clear why.

This is very relatable and I’m not dxd with ADHD though maybe I have it idk.

Yes, Kristen Stewart always looked unhappy until she did that music video in drag and she looked so happy and comfortable and in her element and it was just so clear what she had been hiding and how much it was werighing her down. I’m so happy for her.

Omg yes can we do that show

Please tell me specifically what you mean by “little people” here because while there are two options and neither are great, one is very disturbing.

You’d think but don’t forget that he’s an idiot and he has no idea what he’s doing. It’s easy to forget that and believe there’s a method to the madness but there is not.

we may or may not know each other but we are legit all related.