Moral of the story: Women, it's all about whether or not you can bear children. No one will love you above all else if you can't have kids and choose to have a successful career. You may get lucky when a child-bearing woman dies and you get her old, sloppy seconds. The end.

If the corporate-persons win, isn't it sexual discrimination, given that viagra and penis pumps are covered?

I agree with most of the comments on the first letter. But has anyone else noticed that for the last letter with the racist husband, the writer is given advice to not invite the husband and anticipate questioning "why" from the wife/BFF? Shouldn't the first letter writer ask the bride why? Maybe there is a reason.…

As the mother of a 19-year-old virgin woman, I loved this article and the responses. My daughter is a sophomore in college and has never even had a boyfriend (or girlfriend). She is bright, beautiful, outgoing and creative. She says she hasn't been in any relationships because she is "picky." She also has said that…

I have been married over 20 years. I embody every behavior on your list, and my husband couldn't care less. He is a brilliant and beautiful artist who is secure in his masculinity and who has been a great mom to our kids. Yes, this is a running joke in our family.

Luckily my kids weren't bullied, but my brother was, and I beat up the kids that bullied him, and I was seven years older. They left him alone after that. I don't care what makes sense, or what is right, ie. "you don't hit a child," someone didn't raise that bully right. And if any bullies had put hands on my kids, I…

Wow. It's obvious that you are very young and very damaged. If hating on strangers you know nothing about on the Internet makes you feel powerful and makes up for powerlessness you felt when you were assaulted, go for it. I've come out the other side of abuse and can take it. I do thank you, though, for confirming…

Those who cannot read or write use pictures. Grow up, little girl.

Um.."LOOK" yourself. If you read what I wrote, I was not blaming women for being assaulted in any way, I was clarifying what the group in Santa Barbara was saying about women protecting themselves. You know NOTHING about me or my life. I was molested at age nine by a relative and not believed when I reported it. So…

Yes. That's exactly what I said. You got me. I think you're a fucktard.

Yes. That's exactly what I said. Good one. You got me. So go ahead. Go out walking alone in the dark. Good luck. Idiot.

OMG. Calm down. What this means is, use common sense. I grew up in Los Angeles and frequented clubs there. I'm a tough bitch, but I never walked back to my car alone at 3:00 a.m. Because I'm not an idiot. Of course I shouldn't have to worry about being assaulted. But that's the way the world is, people! Assholes are…

I took birth control pills for 14 years and threw up every day from the side effects. TOTALLY WORTH IT. After I had my daughter, I switched to a no-hormone copper IUD, which I had removed to have my son, and now it's back in place where it belongs. I love it. Supposedly it makes periods worse, but I haven't…

As the wife of the owner of one of those "geeky deal-a-day t-shirt kinda sites," I can tell you that my husband did months of research on suppliers before choosing American Apparel (and Royal Apparel) for the production of his shirts. He choose AA for several reasons:

This is something that cannot be generalized. I have been with my husband for 25 years. Our sex life is better than ever. We are equal partners, although I have always made more money and he's a work-from-home artist. He raised our two kids and cleans, makes home repairs, does the laundry and the shopping and cooks…

Is anyone else bothered by the whole crazy ex-girlfriend stereo-type, especially as it's obvious to me that the copy was written by a MALE? I've only heard phrases like, "I'm going to lose my shit on you," and, "I want to vomit into your eye socket" said by men (almost verbatim). Women don't usually describe setting…

Unless you have been a victim of sexual abuse, especially by someone you trusted, someone who was never punished, who never apologized, shut. the. fuck. up. I was abused by a cousin at the age of 9 and he never admitted it and never apologized. Luckily karma caught up with him and died in his 40s. No one who hasn't…

My daughter and son are grown. They are both thin and gifted. We raised them gender neutral, and told them we didn't care if they were gay or straight. They both happen to be straight, but my daughter is so strong, confident, smart, talented and beautiful she has yet to even start dating at 19, because, she says, "I'm…

My son also had a ton of cavities and abscesses at his first dental exam. It was from drinking fruit juice, specifically Juicy Juice, "100% Real Fruit Juice." Which is really 100% SUGAR. Instead of root canals, some of his teeth were filled, and some were capped with metal caps until they could fall out naturally.…