Rapist love to use the excuse of a woman being bitter about a “one-night stand” because they really think that raping someone is a normal one night stand. What’s worse is how often people believe it.

Well, shit.

That’s just what a vag is supposed to look like, right?

Wtf!

Yea, the first rape I was consistent that it wasn’t ok and even took the guy to court. The second rape I tried to act like it was fine and even joked about it, tried to play along, recreated the situation with the assaulting couple in the hopes that I could re-write the experience in a way that gave me control. I…

out of context but I dig your name . . . pontypool pontypool pontypool

Not really. Many victims try to normalize the experience in order to redefine it. A “fake it til you make it” post assault consent. I know others who have done it and I regretably have done this myself. Also, it never works.

I see what you did there.

Is this not being charged as a hate crime? Did I miss something?

I don’t know what the show was supposed to be, I mostly liked it. I do think she was a bit thick at some moments, like in the racism episode, but her guests schooled her well.

Same. Just thinking it makes me feel like an asshole. It reminds me of those self hating girls in highschool that say shit like “im not a girly girl, girly girls are stupid. I fit in so much better w boys”.

Sexual battery, that’s something that might work. Rapist tend to get charged w that more often than their actual perpetration of rape anyways.

I agree with all of this except rape happens and is perpetrated by both genders.

You seem like a very sexy sex having person. I approve of your methods. Keep on communicate’n.

Gross. This sounds like a porno. This “she didn’t want it but I was so good she changed her mind” is exactly what rapist think will happen. It’s fucked up. Sounds like a coping mechanism to me. “Consenting” after the fact makes it easier. I get it, I’ve done it, but it’s still super fucked up.

Between the age of 11 and 15 my pop nicknamed me Stern because he said I looked like Howard Stern.

Not using proper lubrication is dangerous and stupid to recommend. She has a habit of saying problematic things in general. She’s made statements dismissing feminine women and “do nothing bitches”. I get that she’s likely had to internalize masculine performative ideologies due to her craft but given her fan base I…

Rape Culture

In my hometown there was a cop that was known as Rape Cop because that is what he’d do. Took years to get anyone to really care about it and once he was finally taken to court the agrument and news reports was something like “being a police officer is stressful”, “can you blame him for slipping up?”, “those women are…

I’m a lady and I have been given ultimatums from my boyfriends throughout the years. Wanna push your partner away that’s the way to do it. It’s a fucked up thing to do to someone.