Thanks buddy, I've been looking for ways to get him off that hook (he thought he was investing in my future by helping her) but there doesn't seem to be any. So by tossing her under the bus, they refocused on finding her instead of billing you? I'm open to any and all ways to help him out there.

Too true. At the end of the day, she's just a big coward. Thanks for the rage, it's always therapeutic :)

She’s something, that’s for sure. She conceives of herself as the unquestionably supreme authority on all things lefty, feminist, and academic, but none of her ideology impacts her treatment of people. We’ve been friends for 12 years, dating for four, and it’s only due to the generosity of me and my father that she…

You’re absolutely right. She had promised to go to therapy to address her serious interpersonal issues, which were causing her to treat me like total ago, but she dumped me three days afterward instead. Now of course I see all the many many red flags. I'm thoroughly disgusted by the person she's turned out to be.

Holy fucking hell. Your ex makes mine look like a fucking humanitarian. I'm gonna smother-hug you!! Hope you've gotten back to some degree of stability, that is just unconscionable.

So my partner dumped me in a uniquely brutal way one month before our first year wedding anniversary. Thanks to some seriously life altering chronic illnesses that cropped up while we were together, I was dependent on her financially and to maintain a visa in a foreign country with universal health care. She gave me a…