I think the older I get, the more porn just depresses me. I’m at an age (and of a color) that just isn’t represented in porn, not favorably anyway, and it just reminds me that sex is for slim, young, people — folks that do not resemble me in the slightest.

Okay so that's fine and all, but where can I find that leather dress Olivia wore to the bar the first time?

And it's highly effective at that, lemmetellya.

And as the owner of one, I am deeply ashamed and concerned that I am viewed as this image!

Oh, dear. I'm already here The up has been thoroughly given. (And my tattoo is on my back, heaven help me!!)

Where are the nice plus size moto jackets?

I swear this is how I will know i have Made It. (That, being debt-free, and the theme song from 'The Jeffersons' being my alarm tone)

Well, actually he does find some sort of side (and it sounds like, perhaps sexual) activity that does not involve her, as she mentioned in the article, so I think it's a bit more even than you state.

I can understand your point, but disagree that she has any responsibility to inform/ensure knowledge by her partner's SO. That's overreaching a bit, I think. Her responsibility is for her (and in this instance) her partner's well-being; not that of her FWB's marriage.

For real. Future employers (VPs of Business Development for the Midwest Region notwithstanding) need to know about them.

I wish more churches understood just how important sexual compatibility can be in a marriage. All we got was "Have you had sex?" "Yes." "well, you shouldn't be doing that until you're married."

Well, can you blame us? With all the 'hotdog down a hallway' jokes, and the making us feel even MORE useless as anything other than motherbots post-birth? I'm sure things changed down there for me after just one, but stuff like this it really adds to the stigma/asexuality of motherhood. Never mind that it always…

Your Auntie knows what's up. And right on point with that damn $60.00 (Why does EVERYTHING in the salon cost $60?! Wash & set? $60. Retouch? $60. Wash and twist? $60. Just twisting it even if I washed it myself at home? "You need a conditioning treatment. $60."). <shrug>

It's a Thing, all right. I'll never forget the sinking feeling of having a (older, white male) VP of our company roll up to me and ask to touch my hair. Despite the asking (and I didn't feel I could say no), it was Yet Another Reminder of how different I was/am, and how alien I must have seemed to him. This was after…

Yes! This! ( also: What if I'm in my 40s — can I wear a leather jacket or is that just sad?)

So are we not gonna talk about that fab lipstick and where to find those sunglasses? 'Cause I need that in my life.

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I swear every time i see this gif it makes me so afraid I've gone out of the house and people see me like this.

Gotta love the opening music too!

Step 1: Don't have kids.

Step 1: Don't have kids.