I don’t talk about it on blogs or social gatherings (does this post count?), but before I stick it somewhere I have a conversation with her about her status. And if she doesn’t know it - I just don’t stick it in until she finds out. Yes, even with condom. Yes I am a guy and we’re horny 99% of the time, but I also have…

Thank you. I read far too many comments from people these days almost treating it like it is no big deal. Yeah it isn’t a death sentence but it is a huge life altering disease that should be treated as such.

A friend of my mom’s has AIDS, and he wasn’t diagnosed until he was very symptomatic.

Yes I am sure HIV is very manageable if you are were a white and affluent individual

Eh, if I’m going to buy overpriced leggings or workout clothes in general my choice is always Athleta. Very cute prints, good quality fabrics and no cult-like following (that I know of). I remember browsing Lululemon’s website and thinking everything just looked so drab. Went back to Athleta’s website to drool over…

Of interest: The porn industry is quicker to drop someone over allegations of rape than the NFL or NCAA.

Hey you know what? More power to both of them. They each have their own standards for how they want a relationship to be and what they want out of it. By adhering to them, they've realized they're not compatible and are going their separate ways to find spouses that are more suited to their needs and wants. That's…

I’m not defensive about anything. Haha. I just think you’re really dumb.

Are you being serious? lol Stop with the ridiculous analogies. Your point is bad and you should feel bad. You’re clearly unable to answer or refute anything I’ve said or answer any questions. Now you’re going to come up with ridiculous scenario after ridiculous scenario instead. You’re wrong but you’re entitled to…

UGH, can we not conflate sexually consenting BDSM with rape. PLEASE. What he does on scene is not assault. Many of my friends and I participate in that sort of sex play. I’m not being raped when I fuck my boyfriend.

Stoya is saying he Ignored her safeword and kept going past her consent boundaries in rough play.

You have a keyboard in front of you. Stop texting us.

He “sexually assaults women for a living”? Can you show us where that has been the case? The women performing with him have done so consensually.

I never know what to do with these kinds of cases. I am a survivor of rape, and deeply believe in showing support and compassion to victims, but at the same time I am deeply uncomfortable with the idea that a person’s personal and professional life can and should be ruined based on two tweets, with absolutely no…

If she understood simple math, she wouldn’t have ruined HP.

Or actual lava.

There are a lot of men out there. And I don’t know most of them, but it seems pretty damn unlikely that there are nearly three and a half billion rapists just walking around like it’s normal. I think it’s time to climb down from the outrage pony. It’s had a long day and is very tired. There is nothing to be gained by…

Stop your porn bullshit. Regardless of how you feel about porn, it has nothing to do with that here, it’s the story of a girl raped by her ex, who everyone is gushing over.

They both like BDSM. It’s not the rough stuff that is problematic here, it is the consent.

I was with you until the last bit. That is such a horrible, massive generalization that has no bit of merit to it.