My sister. I love her. She's my best friend. But damn is she a clueless parent. My niece recently started bullying a girl who was once her best friend. She even SPIT on the girl! My sister said she was shocked and angry and couldn't believe her kid wasn't taking bullying seriously. But then she told me that the only…

My mom was the only child of a single mother. She was dirt poor, watched her mom get beat up by her boyfriend, was date raped and was almost definitely a victim of incest. i never had to endure the pain that she did. But I am still a lot like her. i have both her negative qualities and good qualities. And for as…

It's definitely an issue of her just wanting to squeeze into things that don't fit. Everything is low cut and would be low cut even on women who are small chested, but it's always 3 sizes too small in EVERY way. It doesn't fit her boobs, it doesn't fit her waist, it just plain does. not. fit. Sometimes it's almost…

I should have mentioned that she is no longer a teenager. My bad. She's 24, married, and pregnant with her 3rd child. When she was a teenager I did try and steer her in a different direction, largely in part because I realized that she was using her breasts to get attention from boys who did not deserve to even speak…

That's just it- it puts me a bit on edge. My father is a very...conservative(?) man and is easily embarrassed by any of us girls showing a ton of skin. It's not that he thinks we shouldn't be ALLOWED to show skin. But what 65 year old man wants to see his daughters and granddaughters boobs, you know? And she HAS had a…

Why would I pay for someone elses clothes to be tailored when it's more than obvious that she dresses that way purposely?

Some days I wonder what the hell we're smoking. The shaving, waxing, plucking, exfoliating, dyeing, bleaching, and on and on and on. Where is the ceiling on this shit, and what's next? Hanging hello kitty ornaments from our clits?

I have a niece who has HUGE boobs. She's been sporting "too much cleavage" since she was about 13. The issue isn't that she's showing cleavage. The issue is that she is always dangerously close to having a nip slip.

Yup. I was gonna say pretty much this exact thing.

Oh, I definitely remember the clown video. If I'm not mistaken, it was released right after she died. And it was all kinds of sad/FUBAR.

My moms cardiologist is one of the best and most respected cardiologists in Boston, which is saying a lot due to the reputation of our hospitals. He is likely 20+ lbs overweight. And you know what? He is AMAZING at his job. Unlike the extremely fit guy who she saw before him who put her on all types of medications…

That is really good advice :) Sometimes it's hard for me to tell whether someone is being a dick to me because I automatically assume that my expectations are too high or that I'm just being an idealist. I also tend to overlook big red flags (of which there were quite a few in this situation) because I try not to…

You misread :) We never sexted. We TEXTED, like normal real conversation stuff all the time.

I don;t know if I would go that far. Like I said- I remember bits and pieces of things. I remember being consensual in the sex, but I can't actually remember what took place *during* the sex. Does that make sense?

You're totally right. And I guess I was so wrapped up in feeling embarrassed about getting blackout drunk that I didn't even bother to blame him for any of it. I kept playing the inevitable scene of him telling his friends about what happened in my head and shaming myself for it. Because you KNOW that they will all be…

Well that's just it. No, I really don't want to waste my time on someone who thinks that I'm not worth dating just because I had sex with them. That's really fucked up. But at the same time, I'm just not at all interested in going through this same thing over and over again.

I never believed in all that "wait 3 dates for sex" type bullshit before but it's looking like a good idea.

Thanks.

Yeah. The parts I do remember involve me basically saying just that (in between sobs). It just really confused me and took me by surprise because we talk ALL the time and get along so well and I don't really understand why someone would dedicate all that time to getting to know me if he wasn't interested in anything…

That's a really good question. To be honest, I wasn't and am not even upset that HE doesn't want a relationship with me. It's more like I am/was upset that this seems to happen ALL THE FUCKING TIME and it just makes me feel a little shitty. Like, am I undateable? What about me makes men think that I'm only good for…