I’m sorry - do you have labia? I am legitimately confused. Hair grows on my labia majora. This is presumably the hair you are talking about that obstructs access to the vaginal canal and/or clit. My labia majora sweat and stick together. When there is hair there, the sweat is more easily absorbed. When there isn’t…

I didn’t say it was weird you’ve never changed a diaper. I was saying that it doesn’t make any sense to say “I have never seen a child vagina therefore the fact that shaved vaginas look like children’s vaginas is irrelevant.” I was simply expressing that your ignorance of children’s vaginas doesn’t negate the fact…

You have seen a little girl’s vagina, basically. It looks like a grown women’s vagina without hair. It’s not about what you prefer on your own body - or what your partners prefer to do with their own body... it’s the assertion that you’ve made that pubic hair is dirty and gross and that you aren’t interested in being…

You’re being honest but not reasonable.

Maybe it is not natural to brush your teeth but it is healthy. Removing the hair that you grew because of evolution... not so much. Both unhealthy and unnatural. So is deodorant tho - certain ingredients in it have been correlated with breast cancer. I think I will err on the side of caution and go ahead avoid things…

“If most men prefer us to look like children, what does that say about male sexuality? A BUNCH.”

Fucking exactly. I always felt like I had to shave because it was gross if I didn’t and I was literally embarrassed. Embarrassed about what!? Fucking normal adult human body hair? Body hair we have for an actual evolutionary reason? I hate the language of “cleanliness” around the entire issue. The whole “respect”…

Same! I think it looks prebuescent too. And the implications of female hairlessness creeps me out. If most men prefer us to look like children, what does that say about male sexuality? A BUNCH. I also hate the weird vitriol against women who keep it natural. I don’t know if you’re following the weird…

Yea I think that’s the definition of it but what do we know!?

I know I’m also just biased on the issue of female hairlessness because I think a shaved vagina is prepubescent and creepy looking. Like no shame on anybody’s preferences but it’s certainly not for me and if some dude refused to give me oral because I…

Dude, that language is insulting to women who choose not to shave. Calling a time when most women kept it natural “dark” and “frightening forestry,” and then turning around and calling a time when most women shave “beautiful”, “magical”, and “progress” is insulting and dehumanizing. I get that you like a shaved pussy,…

I’m not from the 70s. I’m just a person who thinks people should be able to do what they want with their bodies without being told they’re gross by someone with whom they have a sexual relationship. If a person likes to shave, that’s great! They should do it for their own reasons, not because their partner “demands”…

Right?? What really happened:

Yeah, I do this and still don’t get mouthfuls of hair, because I’m not a goat grazing at pasture :)

WHAT? Okay well no. It takes me like an hour to shave and I have to do it underwater otherwise I get terrible razor burn and also I then get in-grown hairs and then my pussy looks like a fucking battlefield. Like please do not generalize all women’s grooming from your old ex-girlfriend you showered with. Did you ever…

My partner doesn’t lick hair though, doesn’t ever get a “mouthful of pubes” and he isn’t disappointing me...

AMEN. I find the language people use to express pubic hair preference really horrible. It implies that unshaven automatically equals unhygienic. All sorts of people are all “I don’t mind how a bush looks, but I prefer it shaved for hygienic reasons.” Um, there’s a reason our bodies have evolved to have pubic hair on…

Well, so I don’t think you understand what I’m saying, actually. If you want to make trimming an expectation/preference/whatever for you, that’s on you. That’s why I said “doing things to one’s pubes is not a problem” and mentioned that if you have a preference, “do you, talk to your partner, do what’s best for all of…

Trimming pubes for men vs. women is entirely different. It is muuuuuuch harder for women and the expectations are also greater.

Actually though this is something that I hate. Preferences in how you style your pubes/how other parties style their pubes is one thing, couching it in the language of “courtesy” or “cleanliness” or “grooming” is quite another. It’s not discourteous not to shave your face or armpits or less, or your pubes.

LOL. You’ve got some convincing ladies on your hands.