Thanks so much for sharing this. It really hit home because aside from the scar issue, I’m also new to the dating scene in my 30s after a really long relationship- so I’m probably having all kinds of body/dating anxiety. I guess I’ll jump in and see what happens! :)

Haha I will keep the ball trick in my back pocket in case he does happen to ask. And you’re so right, any guy who would care is probably a jerk anyway, so it might be a good way to weed out the weirdos! Thank you so much, this was really thoughtful advice.

Thank you! Laughed so hard at the tummy fetish. And yes, I was so relieved that I could have the surgery and for everything to turn out right that I never thought about how I would feel about the scars- and they totally have messed with my perception of my body, which I’m otherwise pretty happy with. And come to think…

Thank you!!

Hey y’all! Ok, this is a sex question. I had surgery on my uterus about a year ago and have since then broken up with my SO of several years. Recently started dating casually again (and getting busy) and I find that I’m SO AWKWARD about taking off my shirt and revealing my tummy scars. I want to explain, but then it’s…

This is really scary for me. I actually struggle with depression and worry that I won’t be able to handle postpartum depression if I were ever to have a child. My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. He doesn’t want kids. I like the idea of having kids, but when I think about my finances and the potential…

Holy crap. I knew it was a crazy situation, but not THIS crazy. How does she even explain this? I guess everyone is a monster?

Fellow Hufflepuff here, and I laughed. There’s a little Slytherin in all of us!

I like Kim and I feel that on the surface she’s doing something super kind for this person, as with Alice Marie Johson. There is no taking that away. However, there is something uncomfortable about giving Trump and his supporters bragging rights by having one grateful black person and their family on TV, as if it…

Did anyone see Haskell’s daughter’s (the one he was trying to set up with that guy) off-the-mark instagram post? And the disappointing show of support by Debbie Allen?

I’ve been a Jezzie reader for years, but dont often post in the comments (more of a comment reader- they give me life!). Today I find myself feeling so low and confused, and I only feel comfortable coming here for advice as only a couple of the people in my life know about this.

Okay, so I usually wouldn’t share, but if there’s ever a time to share this story it’s now... because of its tangential Donald Trump association.