I saw it, was like “this is the most GQ thing that ever happened.”

but it’s because we’re biologically wired in a certain way and there will be those who believe it is a reasonable thing to press themselves and their desires on others

I’ve found them brutal! I would never be able to do stand-up comedy or rap in public. I can’t believe how hard these are.

She at least ripped him apart mentally, her face was livid. Next ep might begin with her slamming a limb on the ground before the guys, “Ian has decided to leave.”

Kaitlyn wants to hear the truth. But I don’t think Kaitlyn can handle the truth. She’s not half as hot as my ex-girlfriend. So when I get my time with Kaitlyn, I’m leaving it all on the table.

It does feel contrived, and often. Still though, Kaitlyn puts them in activities they think they can ace, because they look deceptively easy (often usually someone’s actual occupation). Each time a guy stormed off, he was particularly bad at these (Kupah was stoked for boxing, didn’t realize he was failing, Tony was…

Guys like him are all game til they mess up. If he had rocked the mariachi, he would have hidden all this crap a lot longer. Just like Tony, who became sumo’s biggest anti-fan after totally flopping around like tampon in the ring match. Fragile babies.

It might be a problem to conflate the FUCK YOU sentiment with all the other angles you could be coming from right then. Like, if denying the guy means something that harsh, this almost pressures a person to go ahead in order for “no” to not be taken that way, or encourages people to understand “no” is a super bad…

It all looks a little Ed Hardy to me. I like the red boots though, and Katy’s tussled hair in that photo.

Thanks :D

I felt like it was pretty rude too. In the best light it signifies that the winner won’t be chosen because he’s in a pond and not the whole ocean, and adding all other possible candidates makes the show’s contestants into the absolute candidate body. Even so, he should have been added earlier, if he was an option at…

I particularly like that she does because she was mad at Chris on the Bachelor for putting her through a ceremony when he knew ahead of time she was going home. She goes out of her way to make the rejection private and swift.

I think the really big unspoken issue is how a person considers the role of a tattoo artist. I think she sees them as being on the retail level, so denying her looks impudent. If one sees a tattoo artist as a professional capable of exercising judgement (however little we might like it or agree) then this is an…

I lived there for years, you are 100% right about this - it was glorious. The price was agonizing though, even sharing a place with 4 other people (I was in UBC at the time).

An astronomy class put me in a better mood and for longer than anything I’ve bought, so I’m not saying you’re wrong. Definitely a preoccupation with wealth and possessions is not the key. What I mean is the means to see what will genuinely create awe, not just appreciation. A person who can only access the local park…

It sounds like you might be a Vancouverite? Alas, that’s the trade I make...

I grew up extremely poor, and in a city with not very much to inspire. This is partly why I think so. Getting enjoyment out of sunshine, all the nice little things, is definitely important. Looking for the opportunity is a good trait to exercise, but it doesn’t always make it happen. I’m not sure I would personally…

I don’t doubt this is true, but awe as it occurs today probably needs a bit more money, too, or time that accompanies having money (to observe things without being harried). It would make sense being in a greater position to see more things would grant you some of the ease needed to be kinder in your actions.

I don’t think you’re in the problem group, you sound decent. I hope people can tell by looking what is and is not asking too much discomfort from a person, but even if they can’t, it sounds like you’re selective about where it is ok. I think it’s only manspreading when someone weighed a small degree of their own…

That’s a really good point about the quality and incentive to work on the comments. That’s probably the problem now - I might be just forgetting them, but I don’t remember so many comments like “YASSSSSS” making the cut, they’ve gotten more...conversational? I’m not saying that’s a bad thing until a scale is tipped…