You’ve been conditioned to believe that you can only be happy if you acheive something great. If you were to take out the comparisons (because in order to classify something as great or not, you need to compare it to something that’s not) and once you look internally at what your true needs are and not anyone elses,…

I feel sorry for your friend. I watched my mother become a woman like her. Strong, independent, intelligent and drop dead gorgeous but never wanted to settle which led her to become an older women who is now sad and lonely because her children grew up and moved on with their lives and she never found love. She also…

You are speaking the absolute truth! Accepting someone and valuing someone for what they bring to the table without comparing them to what society deems as acceptable or worthy is what matters. These women preaching about not settingly are all old and unmarried because that’s what happens when you have unrealistic…

I used to think like you to0 (I’m 30 by the way), however, it dawned on me that “boring” was just some made up term in my head that gave me an excuse not to really try. I’m currently dating a guy that many women would probably label as “boring.” He’s stable, has a great job, he’s the silent type that doesn’t talk…