Thank you for writing this. From the time my daughter could understand anything - she’s six now - I have been very clear with her that she never has to touch anyone, or be touched, unless she chooses. The idea of not wanting to offend others is one that I feel can have tragic consequences for girls in particular -…

As a child who was repeatedly force by her mother to hug random adults, I very much approve of this message. I read an article (forgot where) that said that parents’ forcing their children to hug others is the first lesson into the demolition of a sense of security and learning that their body is not their own. And…

Yes. I’m constantly telling my 4 year old - if someone doesn’t want to be touched, you can’t touch them. You have to stop the first time they say “stop.” He and his brother are in a fighting phase and he likes to annoy his brother. But then his feelings are hurt when brother yells at him. Well, if you are not going to…

This is important because so many people encourage kids to hug or kiss people they might not want to - whether it’s an adult or other kid. I mean. The intent is not bad, it’s cute or charming.

This article is the perfect response to those who say talks around consent need to happen in high school or college. No, teaching there must be consent to touch should be from day one. If my nephew doesn’t want to give me a hug, then I see if a high-five of fist bump is ok. If he still says no then ok, maybe next…