Oh god. I'm 25 and everyone one is wondering why I'm not married yet. I'm not that old you know, even by conservative standards. I get why they wonder, because in my stomping grounds people seem to get married fast. All my childhood friends are married and pushing out offspring; whereas I'm more focused my business…

I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this. I've been dealing with some people who think if you can't have sex you don't have a valid marriage. I've been hearing this so much I've almost begun to believe well, not what they say because that's obviously wrong, but that all men thought this way.

I hate this when my average to thin friends worry about being to fat. It's like you do realize you are talking to me right? I'm fat in reality. If you are fat what the hell am I?

It's like planning a very complicated strategy game. "Okay. So I've two points to being treated like a freaking human being. One: I'm a woman. Two: I'm fat. How can I balance this out? I shall wear flattering clothes, and makeup and preform some lip service to societies expectations. And then I shall be treated like a…

Sir, you impune my coat. I do not now nor ever have owned a duster.

I watched the show with my Mom and sister who are off the internet sort who never get Popcultural Osmosis (For instance both of them were shocked by the ending of Psycho). I was looking forward to that birth scene just to see their reactions.

How do you manage that? Every time I wear a my trench I end up looking like a detective or a cowboy. Hell, my shadow looks like it's going to say something like, "I don't mind if you don't like my manners, I don't like them myself. They are pretty bad. I grieve over them on long winter evenings."

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To be fair, Melisandre's baby is infamous. I'd heard about long before I watched the show.

Areyou doing the metal bits too? Because if you are color me really, really impressed. I mean I just had a fit over trying to sew a little fascinator. And you man . . .

I was there too. It's like I forget it's still a word.

Absolutely agree here, but I kinda like the fact he's pissing off conservatives while doing it. It really shows the people they are. When they get mad over something that's such a small compliment A compliment that enforces the status quo nonetheless.

Oh, I loved Allie's stuff. I hope she's doing okay now. Or at least not crawling on the floor part. I've felt like doing that from time to time, but didn't because of my inner bully telling me I was a grownass woman damnit.

The difference between depression and realism is reality. I've mentioned before confirmation bias, and you frankly have a lot of that going on. You talk about others hating you, ignoring you, or thinking you suck, Meanwhile you have something like a 60+ replies from people here who want help, who clearly like and care…

Yes! Like why would the choir director put me into the sopranos? I suspect, maybe he wasn't very good at his job.

I'm the opposite. I think I'm talking at a normal speed, and medium to high voice. In recordings, I've such a low voice. Like, why on earth did my choir teacher put me into the soprano section?

Yes.. Because I don't know that was the picture of guy and I still felt sympathetic for him.

You haven't yet. There's like 7 billion people in the world right now odds on some of them will be a good fit. A large amount of them are men, have you taken a census of all of them to see if they all think you are awful and undateable? Even if you've a taken a sample group survey you still have to account for…

Oh, I've managed to stumble into writing about Celtic and Indie music. Not real qualifications beyond be a good writer (granted with a shaky grasp of grammer), with good taste. Just say a listing for a job, and said to myself, "What the hell have I got to lose?" So I applied, and got the job. It's weird. I mean I…

Oh, that's really cool. When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time rejecting the womanly arts because at age 8 I was basically a second wave feminist. So I never really learned to so sew beyond the basics. I can repar rips at the seam but if it's anywhere else, I have to say goodbye to that top. And creative stuff is a…