You have to go to each individual website and follow their opt-out procedures. Some are easier than others.

1. he IS white. 2. he looks like my husband, who is also white 3. I'm black 4. "white" isn't the default descriptor for everybody. If you say "a guy" I think "a black guy" because I'm black. You probably think "a white guy" and whenever someone uses the descriptor "white" you think "RACISM!" because it's the default…

WHY DID YOU SPECIFY "BLACK"?! are you trying to say melanin has some kind of thing to do with looks. FOR SHAME! /am black.

The "I don't even SEE COLOR" crowd is as ridiculous as the racist crowd, lol. "lemme just point out that YOU pointed out race because RACIST!"

To me it was in the area of consensual, but not "enthusiastic consent."

It's just as bad as you imagine it.

My husband is white, scruffy, and a manly man. Men that look like him make me swoon. Also, I'm black. Like someone else said, "white" isn't the default for everyone. And... he is white?

Unf! White, scruffy manly men, NUZZLING PUPPIES! I died.

That's what's already in the article.

It really only scares me because it's easy to see that I'm alone when I'm getting dropped off (or else, usually, my husband would have been there with me or gone to pick me up) and I don't really want any stranger to know how abandoned my street is and that I'm home alone.

I don't know that it's naive so much as just optimistic. I am optimistic too, but I try to dose it with a healthy sense of reality, and the fact that you can never really KNOW what side of the good/evil spectrum someone is on (even though I'd guess most people are pretty good, or at least OK) is enough to keep my…

That's what I do, too. Or tell the driver I'm meeting up with someone and have my husband wait for me at whatever predetermined location, usually the park next to our house.

I assumed, because you used "their" for Americans. But then you know how much it sucks ass.

I already am, thanks! And off websites like Radaris, Intelius, and MyLife, too.

I think the taxi thing is a great idea, except what if you don't want to get dropped off in front of your house? I don't want a taxi driver to know where I live, is that so uncommon?

No, see, comments like yours are incredibly blind to how privileged the discussion on obesity is. One of the contributing factors to obesity in our country is that cheap food means processed shit with a bunch of sodium and saturated fats in it to make up for the lack of natural flavor, and that it's so, so much easier…

"Americans just plain don't seem to care about regulating their crap intake" because our "crappy" food is SO MUCH cheaper than our "healthy" food. Where are you from? Because when I visited France, my host family (two working gay men) used to come home for lunch, for their ONE AND A HALF HOUR lunch break. They ate…

Oh, girl, in that case, I HEAR THAT. Yep, I definitely agree on the click bait, even though I think it's awesome and brave, it's not clever.

Just the fact that this guy followed him and demanded an answer is schooling enough. Standing up to someone like that on the street takes GIGANTIC balls/ovaries. I don't know if he (the cameraman) sounds out-of-breath because he is tired or terrified, but having been in that situation (except "nigger" instead of…