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I'm really sad for you that that's the case where you live. When two of our neighbors - 38 & 40 y.o. men, together for 20 years! - were getting harassed on our old street, which is not in a particularly gay-friendly area as it is very conservative, the cops took it very seriously. Being threatened is not a joke.

Geez, what a neanderthal! You can see it on his face, "why won't this faggot just accept the slur and move ON, GAWD!"

Guys, my husband was out with his dudebro friends (I think they were in a group of six) doing whatever dudebros do when they get together, and he makes them stop at a comic book store to get me the new Archie comic on his way back. He calls me and goes, "it's #238 you wanted, right?" and I can hear them jeering in the

It's better cold, not flavored, and without preservatives. Zico is the best I've had so far. The canned stuff and the stuff with preservatives tastes like semen to me.

Does anyone else have significant others who take pictures of themselves, say, in their work's bathroom mirror, send them to you, and text along with it "I'm looking pretty fly today. I just thought you should know."

I only had it in me to give him one of these.

What is the most terrible pick up line you've ever heard? Because I just got a "that dress looks real becoming on you, girl. If I was on you, I'd be coming too" *winky face* at Starbucks and that is THE WORST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD.

Geez, you'd think a "hey dude, FYI, you're replying to sex ads from the school email! Don't do it anymore, k?" would have been enough. What an overreaction.

I hate the idea that cheap shoes are somehow so much worse for your feet than expensive shoes. A creepy client recently gifted me a pair of these, and they are the most uncomfortable shoes I have ever worn and my boss is OK with the occasional purchase of business clothing on the company card, so I own a lot of shoes

I read this question as "how can I increase my tolerance" and

"I don't think it's anti-feminist to change your name for your partner, but I'd like to move past the (incredibly heteronormative) assumptions that of course the woman should change her last name"

The mayor of Los Angeles is a POS but he did what you're suggesting. His last name was Villa and his wife's Raigosa, and he's now Mayor Villaraigosa. I think it's cool.

I chose to change my name, but I hate that choosing not to is still something that's considered "going against the grain" and something that you're expected to explain. A good friend of mine is forever fielding "but why didn't you change your name? WHY?" questions.

Because certain breeds ARE prone to certain behaviors, but aggression is something that very much depends on the owner and the dog's training. No one is scared of my lab, but if I encouraged aggressive behaviors and rewarded him for attacking people he'd be doing that ALL THE TIME. You said you've never owned dogs so

Haha, we have a rottie too! She's wary of strangers, but once they give her treats or rub her belly, she's like "HELLO, BEST FRIEND! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!" She'd be a terrible guard dog.

Whenever I see lawmakers working on things like this I wonder how their unemployment is going. Like, "glad to see you're focusing on what's really important!"

My husband is the angel, I sat in the dumpster, held her (she was only 6 months or so), and cried. He's the one who came to save us, because I think I would've sat in that dumpster forever.

You know what? Do you buy all your food from local organic farms? Because if you don't, guess what, your food most likely got harvested by an overworked, underpaid (and if from South America, maybe ENSLAVED) person, who got paid pennies on the dollar for their product, and most likely had to use Big Farm's products to