it would be hard for them to get into my things while i’m around

I hope when I’m dead people don’t find a box of my private thoughts and secrets and decide to put them on blast—especially if they contain nude photos. Or better yet find a former flame’s box of possessions with my nude photos and put them all over the internet. fuck art that’s the “none of your business” category. I…

Simmer Down. Generally i think gifts are up to the giver, not the receiver, whatever the reason. I'd rather you not have a registry at all, which where I'm from actually implies cash, but also leaves it open for gift giver to decide. i think that's way less tacky than demanding and upgrade on your towels. If i…

"they need a fulfilling career or at least a hobby they enjoy,". that is not my definition of low expectations. its far less superficial than just "must make x amount of money" and says a lot about the person and how compatible you will be.

she's fine. made me want to listen to Tracy's version again. Tracy just brings something so original and different. Kelly can belt out a note, but Tracy brings something original and powerful even when she's singing softly.

I've worked food service and retail. Lots of us have. I dont think saying you're not applauding some of this behavior is the same as being holier than though. Ive certainly reacted poorly in situations, but i don't feel great about them. and just because people are shitty doesn't meant a manager throwing food at…

People can be dicks. But managers (or anyone) throwing shit at people isn't cool. All this bitching about poorly behaving adults and yet that is okay? If a manager really wants to show a customer the error of their ways, they should have said something during the service or did what other managers did, asking them…

I'm curious to know more about this. as a baseline, i don't know much about therapy

not when for decades folks were called "ghetto" and left out of high fashion. to suddenly decide it's cool when white designers say it is? um. nope.

so is it's not a problem that the designer is calling it "chola", just that it's not "accurate chola" as you would suggest?

I'm pretty sure that people shouting "abuse" on jezebel is not at all a part of the solution. But i get it makes everyone feel better

you don't seem to know what muslim women wear, but you are already convinced it would corrupt the data?

read the thing.

sounds more to me like she's being skeptical and critical, not snarky

I could see if you were righting a card, but twitter has limited characters.

i see how it would seem that way, but it's pretty standard. hashtags were created for twitter. not using them is just making a statement and not connecting it to anything else, and the point of twitter, even more so than something like facebook, is to make it so that other people can join in. If you want people to…

Isn't the point of twitter to join a conversation about a topic and make the news or idea identifiable to others?

we fucked up the earth, why not let people fuck up mars?

and in our interest to realize people will keep making new people, so we might want to make sure those new people aren't left uncared for, or without basic needs met like food and child care because parents can't afford to take time off or have to quit because they can't get child care.

thank you. its like not wanting to support education because you don't have kids—actually a real problem in the world. I dont want kids and i somehow ended up working in education. i should quit and the only place I should work is in the field of "employed non-child bearing adults who really need things to".