Stupid move, but I'd call it a day with just calling her a dumbass.

Oh, absolutely. Men do get raped and do have trouble identifying that they've been raped because of our collective hangups around rape. I did not mean to make light of that.

Dude: "Oh, why were you drinking so much? Ladeez need to be closing their legs, and not tempt men by having vaginas and drinking."

Yeah. That's the problem with the whole "enthusiastic consent" philosophy. Are we supposed to pretend that men all have face blindness? They don't. Again, they can actually pick up on non-explicit signs of fear or discomfort or disgust or even just irritation when the person showing those signs is important to them…

I wish I knew how to post gifs cause this deserves the standing ovation one.

I had my wallet stolen from me in a bar while I was blackout drunk my senior year of college. Everyone's reactions were along the lines of "Man the suckssss" or "I can't believe someone would do that here!" and bottom line "I'm so sorry that happened to you." Maybe someday rape victims will get the same reaction when…

Men who use their intoxication as a pretense for sexual assault are no different than men who use their anger as a pretense for violent assault. Note how the same men that have "anger management problems" almost never explode and beat their bosses or their coworkers. They almost never go off and attack their…

I agree with you and LOVE that term (moral luck)! Do you mind if I use it? It makes a great illustration.

I'm in my 30's and I don't think I know anyone who's had hundreds of sex partners (except for maybe one guy).

There was a major, 20+ year long study (began in 1989) that just came out (probably what that links to?) that showed no significant difference between "crack babies" (who are almost exclusively born into poverty) and other babies born into poverty. So actually, yes. Poverty. And we're not talking "going hungry for a…

I am so so lucky to have the awesome psych I do. Maybe this is more the case with British doctors, but when I told my psych that dabbling with stimulants had been the only thing to ever come close to treating some of my long term mental health issues, we talked about ADHD as a possibility, and (after about a year of…

I think it's very funny the way this publication treats mental disorders in general. It seems that you go to all of these lengths to prove that any mental disorder you, the writer, may be accused of is considered "normal". Re: Depression, PMDD, OCD, etc. However, this same publication writes scathing and cruel…

They just RELEASE the cellulite on the 29th birthday. WOOSH! It flies down from her butt to her upper legs!

Hell, I know a male MD who insists that women don't fart. Ever.
They can be incredibly stupid and delusional when it comes to maintaining their fantasy. Never being around a real woman intimately helps with that. (If you want to know how I know this MD dude, I went on a date with him once. He said he got turned off…

all the way to 28, lol. i'm 52 and not a single dimple of cellulite on this bod. it doesn't have anything to do with age.

Well, I think it's ok that dudes don't really understand what cellulite is, because there's no real reason for cellulite to be a thing in the first place. Cellulite was a word invented by the purveyors of beauty goop to make women feel bad enough about themselves to buy shit to 'fix' it. Maybe we should all just go…

Hey dude. Fellow dude here. I find Kim Kardashian's ass pretty banging. Kim Kardashian has cellulite. Cellulite being ugly is not some rule handed down from on high. It's a social convention. There is literally no such thing as an objectively attractive human body. Doesn't exist.

I think it's possible he (and many men) don't know what cellulite is. I've heard a number of dudes talk about cellulite interchangeably with fat. I once got into a big argument with an otherwise intelligent guy friend of mine, when I posited that pretty much every model he thinks is hot probably has cellulite, it's…

Which is precisely why I said "a perspective not needed or asked for"
A million apologies to you, expressly, if my innocuous and innocent comment insulted your sensibilities.

A man's perspective here (not that one is needed or has even been requested): the truth is that I find the cellulite, the stretch mark, the stubble, the blemish, extremely fucking sexy. I always have and always will and I think so many women beat themselves up WAY TOO MUCH ABOUT IT!!!!! stop it already, please. It's…