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You and me both :)

Or at least a 10% discount at your local Dairy Queen.

I completely forgot that one! Thank you (?) for returning it to my consciousness :/

There's such a thing as Bisexual Invisibilty. Basically it means that you're assumed to be straight (or gay) the second you settle down with someone, which denies a part of your identity. Coming out is really the only thing that combats Bisexual Invisibility, especially when you're in a monogamous relationship.

I definitely understand, as someone who has a very not-awesome mom and a dad who's a great guy, but unfortunately crazy (like clinically has severe anxiety and OCD that was passed down to me (thanks, dad!) not just eccentric). I could fill up a few pages on the topic.

Honestly, I cannot say the name Christopher without sounding like Morello on OITNB.

My husband is a Richard and he is very, very, sexy (at least to me!).

I think some people have - but other's are living in the bizzaro world to this day.

It would 'be in his best interest'? Really? It would absolutely not be in his best interest to encourage his wife to act straight when she isn't. It's just bound to breed resentment. If coming out would make her happy, by all means she should come out.

Thank you :)

Exactly. My therapist asked me once if I felt deprived because I was bisexual and monogamous (not that I wouldn't be open to other arrangements given the right circumstances), and my response was: "no less deprived than two straight people in a marriage". Yes, I still fantasize about ladies, but I'm sure he still

As I feel like I am always saying in the comments section: Fuck that noise.

I just can't *not* be pro-choice, even if I feel that I might never choose an abortion personally. I was very pro-life for a while when my mother filled my head with nonsense, but that stopped when my grandmother told me about *her* mother's ordeal. My great-grandma divorced her husband after he became an abusive

Still, how many pretty while girls have thrown their baby in the dumpster/public restroom/etc., gone on a talk show and cried about how hard things were, and been forgiven?

Yeah, I was safe in college, unfortunately I did have a pretty shitty experience with a former co-worker that I trusted when I was 23. Our boss used to take us out for drinks at lunchtime on our half days. One day I was particularly upset and said guy (who also dealt drugs in his free time) offered me ecstasy - which

I have gotten very, very fucked up on jungle juice but luckily it was in a safe place, surrounded by people I all know and love (some of whom were not drinking). The jungle juice was made with Everclear but with all the other shit thrown into it (I think at one point they mixed in an entire bag of sugar) you couldn't

Yeah, we pulled those cards the last time we played. All three of us (it was a small game, which actually makes it a lot more fun) were in NY during 9/11 and know someone who lost a family member and two of us had friends that survived Virginia Tech.

Stock photos are always ridiculous. I remember going through a stock photo database to find a picture of people exercising - one stock photo was a man in a traditional Agbada using an elliptical machine. Why?

It will not make it grow back thicker.

Witch hazel is a godsend. Also, I find that rinsing with cold water reduces itchiness.