For what it's worth, I don't think you sound like you have a "Horribly Selfish Attitude" when it comes to sex. You are in tune enough with your body to know what it physically takes for you to achieve orgasm/s and you're honest about it with your partner/s. If you're having trouble achieving orgasm because of…

"The sound of a woman faking on orgasm isn't the sound of a woman enjoying herself..."

SO MANY DUDES want morning BJs (without consideration for your hangover)

Truly, she has dyed for our sins.

Yes, this was absolutely the takeaway from the article for me, too. The author seemed to request of readers that they be honest with their partners about their orgasms, since the cyclical problem with the dishonesty is that it perpetuates a male-orgasm-focused sexuality.

I think a critical question that's often unasked here is: When faking an orgasm, would you (subject of the original study) have preferred to have had an orgasm?

Forgive me for asking, but I'm really quite curious: when your ex ended the relationship (after you had stated your unmet needs, I presume), did he apologize for his behavior in the relationship?

500 year old vampire in Galveston? Are you talking about Ron Paul?

Typo: "she is effectively a liar" should read "she is effectively CALLING HIM a liar"

Thanks! Whoa...I'm gray! I've never seen me gray before! :)

This is an excellent point. This leads me to wonder if there is something biologically preventing us from wanting to self-cannibalize. It'd be an excellent evolutionary mechanism (because consuming parts of yourself would just lead to a number of illnesses). I have lesbian friends who have happily gone down on their…

You are absolutely spot on with this—this is not a gender issue, this is a human issue. No person should be written about in such a dehumanizing fashion, especially not an innocent guy who was just trying to engage in an online date.

I'm sorry, but I'd have to say that there are elements of character assassination in her post, specifically this part: "I later found out that Jon infiltrated his way into OKCupid dates with two other people I know..." The language ("infiltrated") implies shady/dishonest/manipulative behavior.

Excellent summary of this troll's obvious issue.

Your comment is disgusting, offensive, and baseless. To insinuate that these women would lie just to be "protected under the new [regime]", even though there is no proof that a new regime wouldn't be as abhorrent for women as the old one was, is ridiculous.

Yes.

You're awesome. I hope every teacher does this. It's too much of a shame when girls rely on this kind of silliness to develop some strange, non-real identity; it's worse when parents, caregivers, and teachers don't step in and let girls know that they don't have to do this.

You're awesome. I hope every teacher does this. It's too much of a shame when girls rely on this kind of silliness to develop some strange, non-real identity; it's worse when parents, caregivers, and teachers don't step in and let girls know that they don't have to do this.

You're awesome. I hope every teacher does this. It's too much of a shame when girls rely on this kind of silliness to develop some strange, non-real identity; it's worse when parents, caregivers, and teachers don't step in and let girls know that they don't have to do this.

me too, and I didn't even watch it.