That is exactly what I said. That the man has the responsibility to not abuse as he has greater physical power. (At the very least.)

I will now get on my soapbox.

Also, I am not in any way suggesting that she (or anyone else!) ever asks for abuse, physical, mental, or emotional. It is ALWAYS the abuser’s fault. Period. No exceptions.

I think my comment was misconstrued. I’m not even remotely suggesting that just because both partners are involved that it’s a “fair fight”.

At least now that Sheryl Sandberg’s husband died she’s realized that “being a single mom is really hard!”. Because she couldn’t learn it from the thousands of people who said it as part of their critique of her crap book.

I believe this is probably a toxic relationship where each of them has gotten out of control angry with each other.

I’m a very serious bird nerd. I used to do ornithological field work. Right now I’m enrolled in a master birding class.

Yay another bird nerd!

After reading the victim’s letter, I’m hoping this guy finds out what can happen in 20 minutes in jail.

Honestly it only occurred to me recently. It’s been rumored that she was a beard for A LOT of the men she dated, but it only recently dawned on me that it could be mutually beneficial and she may actually be into the ladies herself.

And now, he can go back to men like every other man Taylor Swift has dated.

And strangely my support for Sanders just went up.

Rumor around SF is that Dorsey is a total asshat.

“GOD I HATE THOSE!! My bf has them and he just wears them everywhere like even when we go out for drinks!!”

Those are a sign of the apocalypse. When I see them I assume an earthquake or hurricane is coming.

Welllll....I work in research with HIV positive people and let me put it this way: is it possible for a man to get HIV from a woman?

Agreed. This is what she needs to do. Every time she mentions Trump she needs to refer to him as “Mr. Tiny Hands” or a “guy that pretends to be really rich”. Like most narcissists, Trump CANNOT handle being made fun of. His grandiose image starts unraveling when he tries replying to insults about him. He will stop…

“Celebrity Jeopardy questions are almost as dumbed down as high school Jeopardy questions and. yet. Michael Steele didn’t know PAKISTAN!!?!?!?!”

My dark skinned latino friend went to visit his boyfriend’s family in Minneapolis. We asked him how it was and he said “The midwest has a lot of macaroni and cheese and white people. I was like ‘hello, I am not black’.”

I think you’re totally right but it blows my mind. When I go shopping it always seems that the sizes 12 and up are sold out while there are plenty of the 4s and 6s. It seems like shooting yourself in the foot not to sell more of the larger sizes. Even if they feel negatively towards fat people they are sacrificing…