Oh, get over yourself.

Yeah, it matters a lot where you want to live and where you can work. This sounds like a deal-breaker to me. Waiting until you get engaged won’t make the issue go away. The pain of breaking up only gets worse. Also, this woman is in her 30s, but she’s supposed to wait around for years (because, heck, she could die…

Yeah, that one’s confusing. Cracks about shock therapy aside, I just will never understand someone’s continued insistence on belonging to a club that doesn’t want them.

Do you remember the story about how the kid was writing a paper with headphones on and there was writing all over the house that said “LOOK AT ME”? It still haunts me and that was I think like 3 years ago.

In the U.S., the Constitution outweighs “school rules”.

They “should” be paying more - who would disagree with that?

I can not believe you would accuse the letter writer of blowing up a marriage, if she were to tell the wife her husband was cheating. She would not be the one ruining the marriage, the shitty cheating husband is to blame for that.

the movie was fantastic and i think Lopez did a fantastic portrayal of Selena. And, in the movie it is Selena singing - not JLo. She wanted to sing the songs but the people doing the movie said no way. So if nothing else, you get to hear some great Selena songs.

I have a pair of Cole Haan kitten heels that I have worn for work presentations for at least 10 years. Super comfy and stable. Some kitten heels seem really precarious because they are too tiny.

Those truly are the worst.

I was just thinking about it and you’re right. I worked in shoes more than 15 years ago. Ahhh I’m so old!

I do a ton of professional presentations, and usually wear Cole Haan kittens for them as the heels have Nike Air insoles to make them more comfortable.

Kitten heels are the mullet of shoes

I mean...I was 14 and had a terrible unibrow and people were laughing at me behind my back about it. I was (and remain) super grateful to a couple classmates who pulled me aside and were like, “dude, you can totally pluck or wax your eyebrows, and it will look a lot better.” Who knows how long it would have taken me…

Oh. Lord. Who. Cares.

She needs female friends and a good support structure. She is completely being taken advantage of in this relationship and doesn’t realize it.

LW3: I made some friends my first few weeks of grad school who turned out to be not so great. But the great thing about grad school is that you’ll soon be too busy, stressed out, and wracked with self-doubt to have friends, so this problem should correct itself! 

I read your column primarily because I get a laugh out of how bad your advice is, but I was reading this wedding one and actually nodding my head with you thinking, here’s some solid advi.....: “Also, maybe you married the wrong person? When that happens we often look for signs of trouble anywhere we can find it.…

Regarding the 3rd letter: Jane:Don’t be so effing shallow. She doesn’t need to “ghost those fools”. She simply needs to speak up about her feelings. Either they will respect her feelings and their relationship grows stronger or their relationship sours. You don’t just “ghost” someone before even trying to fix the…

Also, maybe you married the wrong person? When that happens we often look for signs of trouble anywhere we can find it. Think about it.