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No. Nope. Nope. Nope. Run.

This is a red flag. Dump him, then add to block list. Meet only in public places where there are witnesses.

Don’t let anyone try to convince you that you’re uptight for not wanting to be choked. Choking is incredibly dangerous and if it accidentally goes to far, whelp, someone’s dead. It’s the only consensual sexual activity between adults that I judge.

Don’t be alone with him again. People (sometimes) tell you who they are. When a man says he wants to hurt you, injure you, and penetrate you against your will, he means he wants to hurt you, injure you, and penetrate you against your will. If he did assault you, his texts and the fact that you were too thrown to

Run to the horizon and when you get there run some more. Bringing that up out of the blue without any preconversations about t has me wondering if the divorce wasn’t about more

Jesus Christ...that sounds like some dark rape fantasy shit.

“Taking you against your will” reads to you like he was planning on prior consent?

That’s a rape fantasy, alright. Do with that knowledge what you will (I personally would run like hell given what I know about him from your post).

Good luck!

The fact that you are uncomfortable with it makes all other points moot, really. Run. Drop him. Change your number. Whatever it takes.

You should run; run so far away.

I’d delete his number, personally. I don’t fuck (with) men who have rape fantasies or are into violent sex. It’s just a line I can’t cross.

Taking you against your will, or while you are unconscious

Rapey vibes for sure. The words “torture”, “against your will,” and “chocking” are major red flags

Baby girl, I’m pretty wild. I’m a webcam model. I’ve tried a lot of things.

Maybe there was actually a different reason for his divorce.

I’m in the BDSM community and that’s definitely only something that should be said if both parties have expressed equal interest in it already. Since he sprang it on you and sex has been pretty vanilla so far I can see that being a big red flag. Not for sure, he may just not have tact but the most important thing in

Isn’t that third pic two guys or do I need better glasses?

I....don’t think that’s ok? I don’t know anything about BDSM either but I feel like if he was genuinely into it he’d make sure you were too. From the little I do know, people in BDSM relationships seem to place a lot of importance (as they should) on consent and knowing each other’s limits so if he doesn’t know

If they’re supposed to be selling clothes they are failing because I can’t tell what any of those clothes are supposed to look like when they’re on except the orange top.

Sex sells, but what are they selling?