Thats not a sterotype, nor is it the message the show presents.

I completely disagree with your comments on Sansas rape. It was primarily used to develop her character.

Yes, some females did try but Julia wasn't with the group at that time. Later, the hedge witch is shown grabbing the knife as she fights Reynard. Sorry no excuse for outrage here.

He did "stay gay". Having to marry or even mate with a woman cant make a person less gay.

That's an incredibly stupid thing to say! You are making a strawman argument. Thinking that all people are either victims or villains is hilariously simple minded. People are more complicated than that. The actions od to specific characters are in no way a comment on how all rape victims respond.

"The downside to the big Julia betrayal twist, unfortunately, is that the show has now suggested that the two victims of sexual assault are its villains, even if Julia hasn’t gone full Dark Willow yet."