The point of the whole feminism thing is equality, and equality means that not all women are “good”. If you’re a shitty writer, showrunner, whatever, you get called out for that, no matter your gender. Especially if your work actively harms the causes you claim to support.

If only the victims would just start being nicer...

yeah i’m not even sure i know how to articulate what makes me feel this way, but it’s probably just a symptom of the news cycle and story itself.