Are you aware you stated: "Blackmail for sex isn't rape but in couple of Scandinavian countries. Yesterday 6:52pm"

Personally I'd have called the police non-emergency line to report it. My attitude is (1) if your private fight occurs in a public place or is loud enough for me to hear in my home you've kind of lost your right to privacy and (2) even if I don't know what's going on or if it's real domestic violence, I'm not trained…

After being beat on all day (metaphorically of course) I'm going with a vulgar. Big, nasty and everyone scared of my ugly ass. Nobody messes with vultures.

I got my nose broken and a stellar black eye while having sex with the Mr once while traveling. Not even raunchy sex. I somehow hit the bedside lamp, he threw an arm to catch it and I got a full force elbow to the face. I think having to face your father would be much more embarrassing, but having to be interviewed…

The crime is rape, the manner is sex by extortion. In the criminal code rape is an umbrella charge with the manner of sex defining how it occurred And in now way is violence a mandatory part to be considered rape.

Thanks for the reminders on physical care. On MyPretty's suggestion I have a Skype dinner date in a few minutes so I don't have to eat alone and after I think I'm taking up your ideas and soaking in outrageously scented batch.

Aaah...you are a smart woman my friend. Eating with someone is the first trick they teach you in rehab, but in my loop I completely forgot that option. My Mr. is out of town and I'm all alone, but I'm proud to say I have a Skype dinner date with an out-of-state girlfriend in 15 minutes. I haven't touched base with…

I'm not into the girly stuff my manicures & all, but obviously taking physical care of yourself and making your body feel goods is always a good first step. For me, my secret weapon is sheets. No idea why, but a freshly made bed with wonderfully soft sheets always raises my spirits. A couple years back I splurged…

Okay, first thanks for my first good belly laugh of the week. Second, talk to your vet about getting some kitty valium. I had a boy who had his foot broken as a kitten and because of that had f'd up claws I had to keep trimmed or they fold back into his paws. The vet swore he wasn't feeling any real pain when I…

Uh oh...I do hope it wasn't your hand I speared with my spike heel. But you now hard hard it is to walk when you've had your pinky toes removed. But damn my feet looked good in those shoes.

Yeah...from your tone I was thinking what you were really asking is if it's okay for you to make amends. I'm bored, alone and need distraction so I hope you don't mind but I'm going to give you a long-form, 2-for-1 answer. Answer one is the one I'd give if you were one of my girlfriends; answer two will be more…

Credits at the bottom...you taught me something new. Thanks!

Any ED recoverees out tonight? I need a sanity check.

By the way, blackmail for sex is also called rape in the US. It's called sex by extortion and is a prosecutable offense.

Broad question there...

I know this will never be promoted, but if somebody's hanging out in the grey could you tell me who the picture is of? I'd assume it's the crazy GovernmentGirlfriend dude, but the pix looks too much like somebody on Game of Thrones so I'm just confounded.

But if:

You do realize, even if there is a thread filled with trolling back and forth, you are under no obligation to read it. As for your happy place, I'd look to a park, your home, your family for your 'pleasant place'. Comments boards by their nature are to facilitate an exchange of ideas. Maybe ideas you don't like. …

Have you tried sleeping with men?

I guess I'm missing the point of the 'dates'. If a person is too shy/social awkward/whatever to get a date, wouldn't there be an assumption that person wouldn't be able to successfully participate in a date? Is the issue only asking somebody out and once that's accomplished these men are able to sit at a table and…