Inevitability isn’t accurate here. Not everyone thinks in that way. But then again, you’re talking about “women in America” like a weird kind of monolith that encompasses millions and millions of different kinds of people from different backgrounds.

Starting from “day one” is kind of hyperbolic, but I agree that people should have the conversation very early. Basically, don’t commit to someone if their views on monogamy differ from yours. It will end in heartbreak. There are so many permutations of non-monogamous relationships that there’s conversation fodder for …

What’s normal? Many of our ancestors’ societies were multi-partner in nature, with no paternity certainty, and all members raised all kids. Sometime after the agricultural revolution and only in some parts of the world, wives became a commodity, and the two-partner marriage became commonplace. You could say that by…

I mean, you don’t have to jump straight into gargling other men’s balls, but what consenting adults do...

Been married for almost ten years and have been monogamish since year two. It’s mostly just me and him, but I’ve had two long-term boyfriends and he’s had a long-term girlfriend. If you want to maintain a primary partner, you dedicate yourself to it, and it becomes more likely that your extramarital relationship will…

If they have to fight so hard to curb unnatural behavior, perhaps it’s not very unnatural at all.

Why can’t men keep their dicks in their pants, or learn to accept that the American culture of monogamy and marital fidelity is flawed?

LW1: Your boss sounds like a real asshole. Decent people bitch behind other coworkers’ backs via keystrokes in Slack, not out loud on the phone. When even is a phone.

Excuse you, they prefer to be called “incels”. As in involuntarily celibate.

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