in the name of accuracy, there are *three* white men who catcall in the original video (at approx. :20 ("what's up, beautiful, have a good day"), :39 ("have a nice evening") and 1:40 ("how *you* doin'?)). I am not sure why it is widely reported that there are none.

I'm surprised I haven't seen anyone else point out that he says, "We talked about using safe words..." Not "we USED safe words", but "we TALKED ABOUT using safe words". Oops, huge red flag. There were no safe words. Maybe it was "consensual" that there be none?