So many men can look you straight in the eye and say they didnt do/say/act something they blatantly did. Women probably can do the same but men really seem to lie with a level of commitment where I think they’ve actually completely compartmentalised what they did. Like they actually don’t remember what they did until…

Honestly I think I have deep commitment issues that I frame as independence :D I would love to find someone special to spend the rest of my life with but my fear of getting hurt or having my life change in scary new ways makes me run screaming when anyone so much as says hello to me. I’ve never fallen completely,…

Well I’m bi, so it’s not necessarily about getting dumb 20 year old dudes (I’d imagine you’d get those no matter what). But I probably wouldn’t go that young, it was more about tossing out a number.

I feel you. I’m 30 in six weeks and live in a small rural area and the pool is... not great. I will keep my fingers crossed for you all the same.

He is kind to dogs and gives old people his train seat so I am hoping I have found a good egg and even if it doesn’t come to anything, I think I will make a good pal out of it *crosses fingers*

I’ll go one better: one of the guys at work talked me into buying a bidet attachment for my toilet, so I guess technically I don’t wipe my ass any more either (unless I have to poop in a strange toilet, and now that’s even more undesirable). If I poop without using my bidet, I am terrified that people will be able to…

I spent 50 bucks at my state’s gigantic destination candy store today and now I feel shame.

I’m almost certainly going to fuck everything up because I am a legitimate nightmare but I suppose it’s all life experience.

I had a fun evening last night! A solo one, as pretty much nearly all my evenings are, but whatever, about time to get used to it, I’m in my 30s now and nothing is changing. But it was just starting to move toward perfect fall weather (favorite!), and I had the time and the wiggle room, so I just went for it.

Hi! Let’s have a drink, everybody, it’s Saturday and Trump is still destroying our country. I have an orange vodka and club that Blanchie the cat keeps trying to knock over, and she’s got no quit in her.

Evening all! I mentioned a few months back that someone had asked me out and I’d said ‘Not yet’ because I was dealing with a breakup. The last few months have been incredibly confusing and I’ve felt he was blowing hot and cold constantly and naturally the moment I decide that fuck it, I am done being messed around, he…

Not cool dude. I know how shitty being older can be for one’s dating prospects, but starting an interaction off while actively hiding something won’t lead to a healthy outcome. I would work on owning my age, using your honesty to weed out the scrubs. I know that’s hard. But that’s what I would do.

If you, swear on whatever deity you do or don’t believe in, are not pursuing anything remotely serious - no matter if you find someone who you like - sure, do it.

so I’ve been ghosted again by someone I’ve met through online dating. I wonder when I’ll learn that this doesn’t work once and for all. I’ve been terribly unproductive the last few days and dying for an adderall to help me focus. No luck in that department yet. I’m going to go to bed early after I eat these pesto…