I've read internet comments by guys who seemed to think that if a woman looks down, she can see her vaginal opening. And when I told them that only contortionists can see it without mirrors, they argued with me! Very surreal.

So I've been pissing on all those kids for nothing? I need to get my money back from the R. Kelly School of Being a Man. This is just one of my many complaints.

Do not talk about smegma then in the next paragraph talk about room temperature cheese!

I read this sentence " It's ridiculous and frustrating and demoralizing for me and my partners" as ".. me and my parents" My concern for you tripled.

I see that others have already chimed in here, but I was the same way. I think it was my being a control freak and hating to lose control of my body in every way. I never even got drunk because I hated feeling out of control. Then I started smoking weed and coincidentally started to climax. Not at the same time...at…

there are doctors out there who are working on your problem!

This used to be me until I found a partner that I am just ridiculously comfortable with. I like that you mentioned how close you CAN get... but then nothing. I used to call that The Wall. Sex would be going great, I would be really into it, and would feel like I was finally about to come and then... THE WALL. And then…

It's unusual but not rare, and it's almost certainly treatable. The treatment odds are much better if you can bring your partner with you to treatment, since you can work on both issues like trust and relaxation, and technical issues (by which I mean what to do when).

Maybe you need to switch teams. (I'm only kidding.)

It's common enough to warrant a chapter in a book I have. The book is called Sexual Healing by Barbara Keesling. She calls your issue female orgasm disorder and it's apparently treatable. I don't have experience with your problem, but her book has really helped me heal dyspareunia after having a c-section. Good luck!

there *is* therapy for this. especially since you've already identified it as a brain malfunction. it could also be a...heart? malfunction? humans are messy on the inside. what you're experiencing is not uncommon.

This is me! I can get off just fine on my own (multiple orgasms, like, a lot), but it's hard to orgasm with my partner. Really hard. It makes me feel awful, like there's something wrong with me. And it's definitely mostly me - I think I require A LOT of stimulation and my brain malfunctions, too.

Hi - I'm with you, totally. I have twice, but that's practically zero. It's bizarre the way something stops it. What makes it worse is I lie and I fake it often. I've given up with others because alone it's great & easy & fast. Good to know we're not alone.

Same thing for me. I can get very very close. But that's it.

But but but...it will melt, right? Or grow mold? Is this something people will actually buy and install? Or will the chocolate tub be a one-time-dodgy-party centrepiece that you that you then bury in your back garden? Is there an air-tight clear resin coating over the chocolate that will prevent it from spoiling,…

When you've decided you hate someone, the most trivial things about that person can piss you off. That's pretty much the core of racism. A racist white person would never wish ill will on another white person because they smoke weed, but they have a completely different standard when it comes to black people. That's…

He's so hot, he's always been and I don't know why more people don't notice this!!!!11

This has been going on and on and ON.

Feeling guilty is useless. Perhaps this article may help to get the ball rolling. Found it on my FB feed of all places (I know!!! And it doesn't have anything to do with ice buckets!): http://qz.com/250701/12-thin…