I’d put a caveat on that—talk therapy with no defined goal and end date is a scam. A good therapist will help you define goals, develop a timeline for meeting them, and frankly will push you out of the nest if things linger to the point where it’s clear they’re not helping.

Absolutely. This piece is utterly reductive and unhelpful about something that’s wonderfully, richly complex. People aren’t always precisely sure of what or who they like. Frankly, I think a modest majority of human beings live in that shifting, undefined space. And it’s ok. It truly is. It’s a nice place to be. It’s…

I’m torn because while I agree with this...in fact I was pretty pissed that I’ve had friends completely erase my bisexuality and make it seem like any time I expressed my interest in women that I was doing it for attention....and now they all seem to be jumping on the “omg look at me questioning my sexuality lolol”…

More like Fifty Shades of Bronzer

Dolezal graduated from Howard with her Masters in Fine Art in 2002

See this makes me wonder, was she ever trying to pass? Or did she just hang around Black people for long enough that people just started assuming she was Black and she never bothered to correct them?

We need a Lifetime movie to sort this hot-ass mess out. I suggest casting Emma Stone, she’s the only actress who could…

I don’t think people realise how awful it is to be self-concious about your teeth. I have good, healthy teeth, but they don’t fit the convention of the dazzling American smile, and I have always been self-concious about them, avoiding smiling in photos and stuff. And then anytime Britain is mentioned here, it’s full…

I agree. Nudity near-nudity is so commonplace it’s hardly exciting any more. Who cares if Kim’s practically naked? She’s been photographed fully nude several times. Nothing to see here that we haven’t seen before. It’s not daring, it’s not interesting, it smacks of desperation.

I hate to be Team Tattoo Artist, but just like you can decide where you want your tattoos, he can also decide what work he’ll stand behind and what he WON’T. Clearly you have artistic differences, as evident by your contempt of his other work. So why would you use him in the first place?

Punishing drug addicts has never worked in the entire history that we’ve been doing it. It was a stupid policy then and twice as stupid now because we know it doesn't work. Linalee is totally right.

Actually, the best way to turn a normal teenager who sometimes smokes weed into a criminal is putting them in jail. Your education gets disrupted, you have troubles finding a job with your record after and you meet lots of real criminals in jail. Jail basically is crime school.

Yeah—I mean I know porn is not a monolith, and there’s lots of good (often amateur) “realistic” porn. But the other day I watched some professional porn, because I was bored and like vaguely horny and I was like “maybe?” And I could not stop laughing. The sounds! The sounds. And the facial expressions. But the sounds.…

I choose my wine based on the bottle. If it has a cool label or a weird name, I’ll probably be more inclined to buy it.

It’s always the $10 bottles that I end up liking best. I am, however, lucky to live in Niagara...wine country of southeastern Canada, and a common fun thing to do with friends is go wine tasting. You…

And the actual LAW says that what josh duggar did was a crime, but premarital sex and gay sex are not. The law is based on consent and, ironically, thank god for that.

I’m so sorry that happened to you, and I can imagine the trauma and trust issues that come with that kind of victimization at such a young age.

I agree. All that forbidden apple/being evicted from the Garden of Eden bullshit. We talk about places like Nigeria and Saudi Arabia being anti-women’s rights, but we should seriously take a look in our own backyards.

I think for the Duggar types it’s actually even more heinous than that. It would be her fault for being raped and her fault for tempting the rapist into raping her and leading him to sin.

THANK YOU. When people complain about hair in oral sex situations, I'm like... stubble is our problem here. Stubble is going to be the problem. Don't fucking shave. And you know what? You can move that hair away. With your FINGERS. I feel like a big part of this problem is people (men) being afraid of getting up close…

And from men! Who don't wipe their penises when they go pee. Just a shake and they're off. Now you want me to put it in my mouth? Go shower.