I am Chinese American and I am embarrassed on behalf of those men. Were they Chinese or Chinese American (ABC:  American Born Chinese)? Either way, they need to shut the fuck up. If they are from China, I suppose their ignorance is more understandable.

Why are you here?

Spell check honey!! Oh and you missed the WHOLE point of this article 🙄 are you sure you read it to comprehend? Or did you just read it to criticize?

I think your response elucidates the point of this article — reality is all relative and entirely subjective. The writer’s message is that the right time for accomplishments is when you do them, at whichever stage of life. Certainly our youth-driven society has only become more so thanks to the rise of ageism, which…

Your first sentence sticks out like a burning 5 alarm fire, because this article only inspired, encouraged, uplifted, supported and confirmed LIFE, LOVE AND THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS. So the fact that it”bothered” you is very telling of your unhealed flaming wounds dear. This jewel of an article touched every beautiful…

You sound like a beck zilla...

So your point is what exactly? Other than just shitting on the idea that should not feel like washed up failures because they failed to hit often arbitrary milestones. Or shitting on the idea of offering encouragement to people - specifically black women - so that they can move forward with accomplishing some of the…

This is probably one of the worst comments I’ve ever read. Even if you’re not religious, the universe says that you can start anew from wherever you are. And there are so many examples of women of color who do it all the time. The best example that I try to remember is Toni Morrison who wrote at her dining room table…

I’m lost. This article is about someone who experienced your #1. The author comforts her, says it’s worse for black women because they have higher achievement standards, tells her to stay strong and keep trying.

Y’all are the best.

I feel like you totally missed the point of the article, since it’s emphatically saying that not having your life perfectly settled by 30 or 40 with the pile of degrees and the fancy shit and the accolades DOES NOT MEAN that life has passed you by. I mean, damn.

I’m in tears reading this. It is very much the encouragement I need for this time in my life. Like your friend, I have some ...no...lots, of regrets for missed opportunities. I’m 47. I totally feel like life passed me by. Thank you for this article. I’m drying my tears, grabbing my goals journal and making plans to…