There is such a thing as reactive abuse. It’s not uncommon for abuse victims to internalize and repeat the same behaviours that their abuser is modeling and normalizing. Abusers then use that as proof that the victim is the “crazy” one, or the abuser.

It’s not even a flat greasy grill.... It’s a rotating chain. His burger was only touched by a few thin stripes of potential meat grease, and only because he didn’t bother to ask how they cooked it.

I’m good with blue.  I don’t want to see yellow in incontinence ads or brown in diaper ads either.....I’m happy to have them visually euphemize human bodily secretions.  

It’s adorable. ^_^

It’s not being a diva to enforce a boundary that was intentionally ignored.

It’s adorable.  He knows how to make her laugh.

It’s a t-shirt. It has no context. If you walk down the street in this, pretty much no one is know who designed it or where they stand on social issues. They’re just going to assume you’re either wearing your transphobia, or a billboard about your sex life.

I totally read it the same way....even if it isn’t meant to be transphobic, it’s easy to misinterpret amidst all the TERFy crap that sounds pretty much just like it.

Chances are really good she’s abused, at least emotionally.  She may not have much agency of her own; abusers strip that away.  She may never recover, or see him or their relationship for what it really is.  

“Perineum sunning prevents against the leakage of chi or life force energy from the body.”

It’s why I cancelled. Why would I pay a company that makes me feel that way?

It’s bull. Tons of people have complained. Not enough people have cancelled over it, so they’ll keep on doing it.

I cancelled Netflix nearly two years ago because they wouldn’t allow opting out of that autoplay, and instead decided to outright lie to customers about it being so “popular”.

Assault and threatening assault are not “being drunk”. Smashing up a hotel room to terrorize Kate Moss is not “being drunk”. That’s three violence arrests. She has one, for grabbing her girlfriend’s arm, and that girlfriend defended her both at the time and again during her divorce from Depp.

He’s been arrested for multiple violent offenses over the last couple of decades.

I looked it up after I read the news this morning. In the studies I read, that set of fractures happened in 15-17% of cases, especially in older males.

I’m not sure they were measuring the right variables.....the NPD folk I’ve known were chasing narcissistic supply to muffle their undercurrent of constant miserableness.  

She’s almost certainly an abused wife, emotionally at least if not physically. Why would she risk saying the wrong thing and having to pay the consequences later?

It’s become kind of a thing, mostly because people get stuck on what they think a category is supposed to mean and don’t really have their mind open to variations. There are all kinds of overlapping sexual orientations, but people want to limit people to specific labels with specific definitions that they don’t stray…

Not that I want to buy them or anything, but I have an appreciation for these I would not have had before I started watching Supernatural a few months back. :D