I have no idea how they do it now. If something isn’t already in place for adopted kids to track their genetic medical history, this might be a good time to put something together for them. It might need to be anonymized somehow, but it’s valuable information for the child.

Sounds like it’s time for some new terminology. It looks like they want to indicate which parent bore the pregnancy, which could have some valid uses for medical history or genealogy work, but there’s no need for it to completely misgender the person. “Gestational father,” perhaps? Or maybe just use the right word for…

I don’t support the bans or restrictions, but I’m happy that they’re losing that undeserved reputation as a safe alternative to cigarettes. Hopefully the legislative panic will fizzle out, but the next wave of kids and teens will respect vaping nicotine as a mild drug along the lines of alcohol and cigarettes instead…

Liberal voters are so bad at throwing away liberal candidates when they’re not perfect. He should never have done this, but he didn’t try to defend it and it would take a lot for him to be worse than Scheer.

It’s a great approach on an interpersonal basis, in conversations with open-minded people. On the gameboard Dr Wen is playing on, it’s essentially ignoring reality. The other side has figured out that they can manipulate massive amounts of voters by politicizing abortion, and they won’t be un-manipulated by being…

So at what point does it become unacceptable for white people to wear mud masks....

As a sheltered kid who was in my mid-20s before I ever even knew blackface was a thing, I’m always coming into these articles wondering if the person really was just ignorant (which of course is far less possible now, given the internet and the regularity of news stories about blackface).... But that photo doesn’t…

NPD, covert subtype. People with this personality disorder rewrite their history and memories in their own head until they believe their own idealized version of reality. He honestly feels like the wronged party because this type of abuser sees themself as abused when they don’t get the obedience they believe they’re…

The one and only valid fashion rule is: If you like it, wear it. No one else’s opinion matters.

I would have if I’d seen it before today, but that would mute everyone else who’s said something now, wouldn’t it? I don’t kinja enough to know the processes or etiquette.

I can't wait for the day when this abuser's image isn't plastered across my favorite internet spaces anymore.

Just setting aside how breathtakingly ugly this is.....it’s only made for one type of foot.  Anyone with Greek feet or Giselle feet couldn’t wear this without serious pain.  

I went Amazon-free a little over a year ago, and I swear, there's a new headline every week to renew my resolve.

The foulest, most offensive word for any class of people is always off limits. I instablock anyone who uses them, and it’s amazing how quickly that brightens the environment.

She needs to court a whole lot of reddish-purple voters to win Kentucky.  Stand back and let her take out that trash. 

I just take the shortcut and assume everyone who wants this to be a thing is a rapist or abuser. That assumption will probably be false about 2-5% of the time.

That’s a very two dimensional way of looking at it. Social belonging is important, and there are plenty of spaces that will harbor and encourage assholery in any people who genuinely wanted to change but felt cast away.

Agreed. Nothing ruins the incentive for self-improvement more than a culture that never forgives and/or forgets.

I don’t know, but it’s the most conclusive proof we have of the absence of a just and caring God.

I hid my then-husband’s gun after he grabbed it in the middle of an argument. It was still hidden in the house a year later when we had our first court date. He had been threatening to turn me in for “stealing” it all that time.