I think that’s part of the argument in this post, that, no, the author is giving the setup as involving *straight* women, and yet I still can’t accept the premise.

Yes! I think I answered as whatever the neutral option, and explained with something like ‘you don’t know how they identify/maybe this is the only way they feel safe expressing this part of themselves/something like that’.

Lots of questioning women were straight before they had their first girl crush. This kind of response to openly voicing who I am is the reason why I don’t come out. Seriously, you should not do this.

I used to! Back in my youth when I’d be in the pit, but now I’m an old. I like to stand nearish the bar, towards the back/middle area. Easily access to the bathrooms and to refresh my bev.

Yeah like, at places where it’s assigned seats, sure, I get it. It sucks. That’s your seat, you can’t move. I’m talking about GA standing room shows. Bitch, I am half way between the back of the room and the front of the stage. I’m in a completely normal spot. I paid to see the show too. I’m not way up front. It’s…

Totally. That’s the downside of it. I was once at a concert with some other tall folks of all genders, and there was a dude being a drunk douchebro idiot. We all (about 6 of us) decided to stand shoulder-to-shoulder and block his view. The shortest of the group was 6’, the tallest about 6’7”. We called it the Wall of…

So unless you’ve ALREADY realized you might be bi, having pants feelings about Ruby Rose = being a poseur?

But how many people identify as straight, but are actually questioning? Judging people this way *is* policing their sexuality, like you’re demanding they “prove” they’re “actually” gay or bi before they have a right to express that Ruby Rose gets them hot and bothered.

Yes, but how do you know if someone is straight or not? Plenty of my friends don’t know I’m queer because it’s either never come up or I’ve felt it’s none of their business. I guess I’m more just thinking of the amount of women who may not feel comfortable coming out...possibly ever, and this is their safe way to…

I guess if you disagree that no woman gets a pass from male abuse, then I can agree that you disagree with the facts.

I’m torn because while I agree with this...in fact I was pretty pissed that I’ve had friends completely erase my bisexuality and make it seem like any time I expressed my interest in women that I was doing it for attention....and now they all seem to be jumping on the “omg look at me questioning my sexuality lolol”…

I don’t get the snark about “tall people problems”. I’ve been 5’10” since I was in 7th grade and I am pretty self conscious about my height, even still, at 30. I can only imagine what it would be like being 6’1” or taller as a 16 year old girl. My mother is 6’0” and I was super nervous I would be too. Her sisters are…

Jezebel writers just aren't very nice anymore. Reference almost any post at all.

Thanks, DM me and I’ll give you my address so you can forward the extra $1,000 for each way every time I fly.

Even your tldr is tldr

I’m totally ok with opposing opinions. But I’m totally NOT OKAY with being called (direct quote here) “fucking stupid,” which is why you’re last comment was dismissed. That does not add to discourse, whereas your comment here actually does.

I think we’ve reached a meta level of parody that is a parody of meta level parodies.

WHY MEAN FEMINAZIS MAKE THOR SECRETARY!?!?!!?!?

As someone who has done the whole 30, she’s totally lying about feeling good after a week. That doesn’t happen until day 17 ;)