I’m just going to add that people who abandon (better word is dump) animals instead of taking them to a rescue or shelter are both lazy and shitty. Gah!

I’m just going to add that people who abandon (better word is dump) animals instead of taking them to a rescue or shelter is both lazy and shitty. Gah!

Good to know I'm in good cmpany. Curse you Target!

Tissues. Oh you’re the best!

I’m sorry for your loss. I have what I call Target moments. They typically happen around Mother’s Day and Christmas. It happened this week when I went to pick out a Mother’s Day card for my MIL. My chest got tight, I couldn’t breathe, and before I could run and hunker down in the empty gluten free aisle until I could…

I’m sorry you’re frustrated, but unleashing this level of hostility is unnecessary. I certainly didn’t intend to upset you, but I did and I’m civil enough to admit my mistake and apologize. I don’t need my hand held, I said I was willing to listen if you wanted to say something constructive.

Thank you. I appreciate your comment very much. My bad. I’ll know better next time.

But you choose to convey this in a hostile way. I’m sorry your life is “hell” because of all of us idiots, but you’re never going to open a meaningful dialogue or get a positive response name calling and being hostile. I'm a perfectly willing listener, but I simply won't tolerate ranting over a helpful discourse. I'm…

And then there's shespreading. Lord have mercy. Go commando, it's fine. Just don't wear the skirt to wore to play tennis for your pedicure.

Know what? She very well could have mental health issues. It’s not specified, but it’s not out of the question. She could have substance abuse problems. You folks crying about this “not being mentally ill” are just as guilty of diagnosing her as “just being an asshole” or “shitty person”. The fact is you don’t know…

I bet you think you’re clever. I do fuck an occasional, not wedding, and not this guy photographer. I married him.

Oh so it touched s nerve with you, so instead of saying so you go with “fuck you”. Nice. You could have easily said that this offended you in a reasonable way and explained your situation. I know it’s the Internet and you can lob bombs at strangers annonymously, but make it’s always best to make sure your target…

So it does. Which, lord this is exhausting to type a million times, I said at the end of my post that if it was just that she complained (which is not a bridezilla move) then she shouldn’t have been subjected to this. He’scalready reaping the benefits of being an asshat.

Fair enough.

You know what works to educate people? Not calling them names, not being terse, not being condescending. Nobody wants to listen to that. There’s absolutely no need to be nasty.

My mom used to do the most hilarious imitation of the Bon Ami cleaning freak out in Mommie Dearest. She was a neat freak and it was her way of making fun of herself and making chores fun. I’ll never forget the first time she jumped out of the closet in her bathrobe with a can if Comet.

I don't disagree with that. On the bright side, by doing so he outed himself as a first class prick and now everyone knows and can avoid hiring him.

Reading comprehension matters.

Can we go back and read my comment more carefully? I never said the bride was guilty as charged. I also said that she shouldn't be subject to such crap if all she did was make a perfectly valid complaint.

Wow, that was rude.