Londoner here, if you need any info or recs give me a shout :) but most importantly have a great time!

This made me cry. Much love <3

Then, may I tell you how much I have always looked forward to your posts? You’re a valuable part of our community here, and I have nothing but love and respect for you. Stay awesome x

Hi, I have it. You really want to get a doctor to dx you, it can be a bit complicated to treat mental health with the wrong dx. If you do have it, I can’t recommend DBT enough. I was only able to do it a few months And even that made a big difference for me. But you do need to put effort in, even when you really don’t…

Hahaha, bless.

“Omg did you see the neighbors cute kitchen renovation?” “No, but I did see that Trump demolished our government with no plan of a renovation.”

My Dad... I adore him. We can be very similar and get on very well. We have the same sense of humour, enjoy a lot of the same music and shows and we go see stuff together every year. He is always willing to be my date to feminist comedy shows.

What a wonderful, insightful read. Your Dadaji sounds like a great man.

He may not understand what he did, but you can’t be sure that he would have understood what he’d done regardless. Cut yourself some slack, many of us react the same way you did. You’re not alone <3

It makes a lot of sense. I’m well and hope you are too, hugs right back atcha :)

I recognise this so much. I did the same. Except he wasn’t drunk in my case so I didn’t even have that excuse for him. Though really we all know there’s no excuse for it.

I talked to and spent time with my rapist after the fact because I couldn’t admit what had happened. I didn’t want to believe someone I trusted would do that to me. Survivors don’t always act ‘the perfect victim’, it’s a complicated issue for many.

Truer words were never spoken.

We hate queuing. We loooove complaining though...

I have it. Honestly, you want to be doing DBT. It helped me a lot! Even if doing it as a therapy option is not available to you right now, there are materials online so you can get started.

I do it all the time, I travel for concerts that no one I know would want to go to. Tourist things no one will even notice you’re on your own, and meals you can just take a book!

Your friend is using you as a taxi service and doesn’t seem to give a shit about your life and responsibilities. I would confront her if I were you.

I have belonged to a forum where this happened, and people found out. I mostly saw the fallout because I hadn’t been there long at the time. I find it both fascinating and disturbing, just read the articles others posted.

I’m experiencing it and it’s so petty. In my case it’s one person who arranges most of the social stuff and he doesn’t invite me anymore. I’ve elected to maintain relations with the rest of the group individually, where I can spend quality time with them. I don’t bring it up because I’m not about the mess and it’s not…

I used to use this product a few years ago because I have very dry (peeling) skin and thought it might help. It made my skin pretty sore, be careful with it if you suffer from very dry skin.

I used to use this product a few years ago because I have very dry (peeling) skin and thought it might help. It made…