I was referring to the Washington Post article but now that I read the one from the WSJ.... yup suspicion confirmed, this a totally made-up issue. “You” could be anybody not aware that women in long-term relationships are as likely to be the ones that want more sex than they are getting as men are. And “You”’ is used…

How is the Washington Post article addressed to men? What words specifically. Seems like you completely invented that. It is written by a woman and contains interviews and quotes entirely from women so even if it was addressed to men, it was women who were doing that.