I really don't think the controversy around the photo reflects an idea that any breasts are SACRED. Instead, unfortunately, I'm afraid it reflects the stubborn survival in our culture of the idea that breasts, and the human body, are DIRTY. And the fact that African breasts are often given a pass reflects another…

I date black women and I would gladly marry one if I found the right one. But I do agree that a lot of the searches are probably coming from people who fetishize black women but also don't feel they are marriage material. Although it is tricky here, because in part Porn is an industry of objectification used by people…

you realize that as a man it is not expected for you to have long hair right? as oppose to a female whos peers all have long hair, the only difference being that theirs is straight and small while hers is curly and big

Since this is the internet we all get to be flippant and bombastic with our wishes and comments. I would love for nudity of all kinda to never be used against you, not with laws but socially, that nobody would try to shame you for it. Yes I get that we aren't there and to suggest that we just get there is offensive…

Poor baby. Hugs hugs hugs.

Except possibly press charges. Because you're right. And fuck them.

As a former victim of Hunter Moore's disgusting website (twice, unfortunately), this article made me feel a whole range of emotions. Mainly anger and sadness, and a lot of vulnerability. Especially when she referred to the call her daughter received from her friend who found them online... because that is exactly how…

That sucks. I'd probably break up with the internet if I were you. Getting harassed online isn't worth it.

I'm sorry this happened to you and am saddened that it is STILL HAPPENING to you. It used to be said that "children are cruel" as if it were a phase, something we all experience and then grow out of as we learn to be civilized, compassionate beings. But it seems that the freedoms and anonymity (for some) of the…

Shit. I hope there are people in your online community that stick up for you. People who use that kind of shit against you are the ones discrediting themselves and worthy of ridicule, not you.

Thank you so much for sharing. I wept reading this because I was victim of a similar "Professional Life Ruiner"... my innocent selfies were crudely edited to be lewd... I was legitimately stalked for over 6 months by an entire forum of trolls. Their GOAL was to drive me to suicide. I lost my job, I lost faith in…

God, that sucks

hugs!

When I was 18, someone from a message board I posted on started stalking me—- emailing me constantly, asking me inappropriate questions, saying he wanted to fuck me, telling me he was going to come to my house, on and on. I finally flew into a rage and told him to kick rocks or I'd kick them for him and he disappeared.

This happened to my daughter a few years back and it sent her into a tailspin including a suicide attempt. They stalked her house, hacked her FB page with the photos she sent to someone online that she didn't know, harassed her father at work and encouraged her to kill herself. She moved and changed her name and…

On the bright side: this a movie waiting to happen. It's so rare in real life to have such a well defined villain and a hero. It's like a high tech version of the Jennifer Lopez movie, Enough. I hope the author sells the film rights, makes millions and uses it to ruin Moore's life forever.

If I was out with my sorority sisters and if we left anyone alone to puke out her guts and get home herself, we would've been in deep shit. We weren't allowed to leave any kind of mixer or social event alone. I went to homecoming as an alumna and ended up at an afterparty at a frat house. There was a really young…

I am male, and I get an abysmally low response rate on OKcupid. But I think sending "Hi" is indefensible. I think you really need to put a little more effort into it. If "Hi" becomes acceptable, then online dating will even more be only for the handsomest men. If "Hi" becomes acceptable, then every man would say…

Vincent is a talented writer. As someone who began transitioning (FTM, but had to stop for financial and social reasons that are not important at this moment), it's definitely difficult. I felt constantly frustrated and shut out. You generally have to be the first to approach, you're the one who usually has to make…

Exactly, I'm sick and tired of people defending this douchebag and giving his bullshit media attention! Thats the only reason he is doing this shit. As long as the media is paying attention he will keep acting like this. Dear Jez, Kanye and Kim are both assholes, stop giving them what they want.