I’m also thinking that sharing pictures of two co-workers with a third co-worker, brings it into your professional life, not just your personal life.

If the article is correct, this was not the decision of the company- it was the decision of the union and the arbitrator. If it went to arbitration, the company didn’t have a choice.

So now that you have been given tons of evidence to demolish your points you turn to nasty, misogynistic attacks. Hand clap. Did you think that your antics would intimidate? I’m not in the same room with you while you rage, asshole, so yeah, you’re not scaring me. You just spurt nonsense, spin ever faster, and when…

According to you, fathers (in general) are desperate for more custody with their children, but can’t get it because of the biased courts. You have been shown conclusively that the courts are not biased against fathers, so now you say that fathers are failing to even ask for custody of their children because they…

You’re really trying to spin evidence and numbers. You said, “There’s also the fact that when fathers do gain primary, they are statistically less likely to be awarded or paid child support, from the US census bureau.” as though that is a sign of bias by ‘the system’ against men when it is not.

That says that by and large shared parenting is better for kids- I don’t disagree with that. It does not say that 50/50 physical custody is better for kids, it specifies that what is beneficial is at least 1/3 physical custody and acknowledges that children find it an ‘inconvenience and a hassle’ even if they think…

Show me these states with this ‘standard custody schedule.’ Again, the PARENTS figure out custody in most cases. If a man wants 50/50 custody, he negotiates for that- in many states that’s now the default. IF he fails to negotiate it, THEN the courts get involved, and they will usually allow 50/50 custody. 

Where’s the research showing 50/50 timeshare is best for children? Personally, I would say the only way that can be best for the kid is if the parents agree to keep one home for the kid and THEY move every 3-4 days to a second home. Do you have any idea what it’s like to move between homes every week? You always need…

This is what you are not getting: The courts, ‘the system’ is rarely involved. If men want more custody, that’s what they need to negotiate for with their partner (with or without lawyers). The reason women get more custody is because that is what the couple has decided. There are all kinds of socio/cultural reasons…

Show me the locations in which the courts are making the majority of custody decisions (not the parents themselves) and that they are making those decisions to favor the mother in a majority of cases. Evidence, not anecdote or statement without support. 

You are refusing to process that ‘the system’ is not what gives women more physical custody, because ‘the system’ is rarely involved with those decisions- the couple in question make the decision the vast majority of the time. If men (as a monolith) want more physical custody of their kids, they need to ask for it-…

That’s what the couple’s are agreeing to of their own volition. The vast majority of custody agreements are made by the couple in question- if dad isn’t ok with the arrangement he and his partner have worked out, he should have said so at the time. For the very small percentage of cases in which a judgement is needed,…

I’m truly shocked by that- how can you know if they’re going to kill you or not? This is just common sense. 

The first I can remember was a guy in an alley when I was on my way to school at 10. There were a fair few between then and graduating high school- a couple of times it was guys in cars who would pull up as you were waiting to cross the street. Seville (early 90s) had a park that seemed to be for that express purpose-…

I’m disappointed Melania didn’t design this. The one thing you can pretty much get away with covering with a ton of gold and gems and just possibly be considered not incredibly tacky is an egg- a la Faberge. 

Stop! I refuse to submit to reality (but I also liked AR when I was young, so I can rationalize).

crotch goblins- you win everything

There are far more than 100,000 cases of measles every year globally. That’s about how many people die of measles every year. 

 So much this

“Yuck! But also, cool?” pretty much sums up my reaction. I love Antiques Roadshow with an unhealthy passion.