I married one, he was suppose to be a one night night stand that turned into a weekend that well turned into a marriage.

There is actually a lot of all parties go into knowing what it is.

or Venus in Furs by Masoch, or anything by Georges Bataille. I especially recommend Blue of Noon or Story of the Eye.

I know, they act like they invented or you know we were these mild manners women. Luckily I went to art school. Vaginas everywhere, Annie Sprinkle videos, GGG videos, guys shitting out grapes, ahhhh the early 1990's, breaking free from the Moral Majority and the PMRC.

Okay, okay, I would regal you with stories of misspent youth staring into an empty two liter soda bottle filled with smoke (gravity bong style.) but honestly all we did was paint, make art, and then played some sort of role playing game. It was boring all shit until I moved away fond friends that liked to do stuff. My…

Does anyone else remember when Taco Bell aloud you to build your own burrito? They had add ons like olives, jalapeños, etc. It was a great time in history.

I liked you idea of P,V and I would add an I. Then let the said kid explore. Otherwise blame Disney.

Umm okay. Like I said I knew that thought was wrong because it was reactionary. It's like how did you know you were a girl if not for societal standards? Logically, I know you just knew. And I like I said I know it's not the correct way to think about it.

I want to thank you for this. This was one thing as that I couldn't wrap my head around. I couldn't get passed the feeling that a lot of trans women were playing into the part of the preconceived notion of being a girl, like playing with their sisters dolls and Barbies, or loving dresses, etc. I'm aware enough to know…

I've been on both sides of the monogamy fence; I'm not sure what I like better. I think for me I'd rather be in an open or poly-light relationship and have my own space. I prefer independence and wish I could be more so.

No, you didn't. I just fear the hub and I are playing into a stereotype.

I'm married to another bisexual and it's nice. Currently we are open but I have been monogamous before.

what?!?! WHAT?!?!WHAT?!?!

I agree completely and think perhaps, it's because of fear and self loathing spinkled in for both gay/straight people.

I think I agree with you but not sure. I don't think we face different issues, I think we face the same issues but different sides of the coin? It's the fact that the other part of our attraction is denied. With women, it's the same sex attraction and men it's the attraction to the opposite sex.

Cary Grant wasn't gay; maybe bi. He was married five or six times, and had a daughter. I really don't think he was gay. People might want him to be gay, but he wasn't. People forget that Freddie Mercury had a serious girlfriend before hand, someone he called his soulmate who he was in love with until the day he died.…

And Providence isn't on the list? http://www.golocalprov.com/news/human-rig…

Northampton is to lesbians as P-Town is to gay men.

I know. DC is super gay friendly as is Providence.