Well that's what you thought, anyway, until this writer came along with "the reality" and "the truth" about all sex everywhere. ;-) Today must be like The Matrix for you! Certainly was for me.

Funny how I've never had anyone tell me that doorbells have ruined inviting friends over.

Funny that she mentioned "presumed" states of being. It reminds me of how women are presumed to be consenting unless otherwise stated.